How can an unattractive guy compensate for his looks?

[Anonymous]

So I'm about a 4 out of ten. Just looking for some tips on how I can maybe compensate for my lack of looks and attract a partner?

[William7489]

Oh this one is the most simple answer on earth. Money. And a lot of it. I’ve seen guys that may have been invisible in high school they were such nerds. 15 years later after they’ve developed an app that they sold to Google Yahoo they’ll show up at the class reunion with someone who looks like a Victoria’s Secret model on their arm. What changed? Nothing much except the guy is now worth about $50 million. I’m not saying all women are shallow, but let’s not kid ourselves, everyone is looking for security in relationships. Money is a big factor. If you’re not a great looking guy, having a huge bank account makes you much more attractive to the opposite sex. That’s not always true but it is the majority of the time. Of course you can always work out, take care of your body, have a great sense of humor and those things always help. But in the end, when it comes to crunch time the person is going to make their decision based on what really matters. And it’s not going to be personality or having big biceps.

[Arwen06]

Grow out your hair and learn to dress better

[Anonymous]

Work on your personality.