Is it suspicious my gym rat brother refuses to come gym with me so I had to get a trainer or just a bit sad?

[Anonymous]

Because my trainer he asked me if anyone in my family trains strength at the gym, because I guess I know a lot about it already

I said yeah my brother but he likes to go alone, I assumed he may been thinking well if her brother trains so much why does she need a personal gym trainer

So I explained he won’t come with me though he said he likes to go alone, I asked him like so many times I think I went with him like once and he was like “you shouldn’t be lifting that it’s too heavy for you” he just doesn’t like to come with me and my trainer looked very awkward at the floor and went silent as if he knew something I didn’t

[Guy13]

Let your brother have his personal life or he will cut you off from all aspects of his life. Guys hate prying women. I’ve stopped dating many like that. Good luck 🍀

[Asker]

Wait… so my trainer went silent because he didn’t want to say anything that would hurt my feelings aka telling me I don’t need someone to come gym with me esp not my brother? He knows I have anxiety and seen me walk in and leave a few times but in our sessions together I do great. I got the vibe he either felt bad or me or found me pathetic

[Guy13]

Control your mind, thought, feelings, and behaviors. It takes vigilance moment to moment but I see no option unless you are comfortable with a single lifestyle 🤷🏻‍♂️

[spartan55]

You seem all your trainer thinks about is you...😂 Don't think so.

[Asker]

Social anxiety and autism disorder problems

[spartan55]

Uh... ok?

[Asker]

i overthought it I guess. he went quiet because there’s nothing to add to the conversation as it’s my family not his

[Dreamclouds]

It is kind of weird to go with your sister unless you are like extremely close

[Asker]

Does it make me seem weird I complained about him refusing to go with me

[Dreamclouds]

No, not at all it is just natural to complain

[Dreamclouds]

just sometimes men/boys can be colder

[Asker]

Yeah I’m just thinking it’s like I hope he doesn’t think I’m pathetic for wanting my brother to come with me it’s just I have anxiety he knows this as I train good with him then when I’m alone sometimes I go in then leave again. I think he wanted to tell me I don’t need anyone! But didn’t wanna offend someone with obvious anxieties

[Dreamclouds]

Look into niacin and other disorder usually anxiety is lack of vitamins and nutrients

[Anonymous]

He just wants to train on his own.

[Asker]

Does it make me seem pathetic for complaining about it?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, a little bit.