Is it rude I completely ignore my personal trainer when I see him in the gym?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

It’s just I want to do my workout and I always have AirPods in so I didn’t even hear him when he said hi I seen him but I didn’t want to go over and say hi and disturb his conversation / training or become taken off track from my own training it wasn’t personal but part of me feels I should explain myself because he kept on looking over at me I think he thinks I just completely blanked him

[SnowedIn]

If he is your current personal trainer then not so much rude as a waste of your money. If he was your personal trainer and you're no longer paying for the service and he works there, no, not rude.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

He is my current personal trainer we have sessions twice per week and I have his WhatsApp so it seems pointless to talk to him in the gym outside of my sessions?

[SnowedIn]

You are exactly right! :) In that case, not rude. As long as he has your attention during sessions you're golden.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Yeah it’s like I know he’s there when I train on my own he works there feels senseless to go around trying to make conversation with him when I’m trying to workout and he’s trying to work. Or if he’s talking to his co-workers etc I don’t feel like I need to interrupt he’s given me a training plan and I know how to follow it. Small talk is pointless lol

[SnowedIn]

Lol... in that context yeah. Small talk can have its uses but not when you're at the gym.

[Andres77]

Do you mean the one that you have a crush on? Is this the one in Britain or the US?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

The UK I have a crush on him yes so I’m super nervous and even though he’s like a foot away from me I’ll act like he’s not there. I think he likes me cause a male client said “she’s cute” behind my back and he got nervous and shyly smiled at the ground, he didn’t know I heard

[FilmGuy93]

That was a pretty weird thing to do, yeah.

[pizzalovershouse]

Kind of is gives a like oh I dont like you much as a trainer

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Yeah I feel weird about it but my anxiety is really bad I seen him complaining to the female PT that i just blank him. I obviously talk to him during our sessions twice per week but outside of that I don’t

[pizzalovershouse]

Sounds like he thinks your not liking to be friendly to him

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Do you think he likes me if another male client of his said “she’s good looking” behind my back and nodded and he shyly nodded his head and smiled at the ground

[pizzalovershouse]

Probably more embarrassed he liked your figure guys get aroused by simple things like bust butt face an good figure but doesn't mean they are into you if really into its great personality that attracts a guy

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wait I'm confused isn't your personal trainer supposed to help you stay on track with your workout and help you reach your goals

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I have him twice per week but talking to him when i see him in the gym seems pointless like he could even be standing a foot away from me I act like he’s not there

[Bklynbadboy12]

Okay that makes sense

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Do you think he likes me if another male client of his said “she’s good looking” behind my back and nodded and he shyly nodded his head and smiled at the ground

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's definitely into you the question is are you into him

[Alex8736]

personal trainer or former personal trainer?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Current personal trainer I just don’t want to bother him if it’s not our sessions I don’t really feel the need to speak to him he could be standing a foot away and I pretend like he’s not there

[Alex8736]

if it's not your session he should focus on his client. to put it another way if you had a day off from work should your boss care what your doing on your Free time