How do you navigate casual sex?

Anonymous

I spoke to this guy for about a week and then we hooked up. He said at the beginning he was looking for someone to chill and hangout with not just hookup once and be done.
We have hooked up a few times, mostly late night and he has cancelled on me last minute a few times also.

When we do hookup it’s like in and out in an hour and we’ve talked about some thing’s here and there, normal conversation. Although I’m always the first to initiate conversations/texts it’s starting to make me wonder if he’s just not really interested in even hooking up anymore. When asked what his expectations were, he said not much. And that was it.

So my question is, is it okay for me to text him and just start a conversation? Is it okay to ask if he wants to go out to dinner with me? At what point of getting cancelled on or just ignored do I just leave it be/end things?

How do you navigate casual sex?
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