Would you get into a relationship with someone who has lots of casual sex?

[Anonymous]

They have had lots of casual sex, mainly one night stands/booty calls and even sleeping with people while you are in the dating phase however,
A.) They have never cheated on past relationships - longest being 18 months
B.) They promise they will be faithful to you if you get into a relationship as they are not 'cheaters.'

Would you?

Updates

1 y

If not why not?

[DaveJord]

Are you talking about a person with a history of having causal sex, or someone who had casual sex while we were dating?

First off i really do not care what a women's sexually history is prior to dating or meeting her. So yes I would date some one with a long history of casual sex, its not a problem for me. I have my own history, but if commit to a relationship then I stay committed, and I would assume the same of her until I have reason not to.

As far as having casual sex why dating me, well that all depends on how early in the dating process we were and the types of conversation we where having about any potential relationships. In general I would not be too happy about that and that would give me reason to doubt her. Because I do not have multiple relationship with women at the same time... so I do not do casual sex with women when I am talking to a women with the intent of dating her. And I would of discuss that with any potential partner before the second or third date.

IF she was hooking up with someone I know while I was considering dating her, yeah its a deal breaker trust broken.

[Reaper1985]

personally I would say if she's had more the a few sexual partners then I'd pass on her.

some relationship and dating studies show that people who have had many sexual partners in the past. can end up having a harder time with long term pair bonding in the future. regardless of their gender or which gender they choice to interact with in the past. because on a conscious and/or subconscious level they will likely compare past and present encounters. which can impact how they handle things in a long term relationship to some degree.

[Birdlegs]

Fuck no. Idc what you doing when you single but if we’re in the dating phase and you still out there for the streets then I couldn’t do it. I wouldn’t care if you say you won’t cheat actions speak louder than words and I wouldn’t trust you from your actions.

[Whatever2929292]

No. Number one I am religious so that is a huge reason. Other then that the risk of being cheated on is HIGH.

When you are with someone who is sleeping around all the time you take a massive risk of that person cheating on you with tons of people not just one affair

[JSmuve]

No. I'm not interested in being in a committed relationship with the community dump. That's like paying full-price for a buffet that's been picked over by everyone.

[Berethor]

No, I don't trust sluts, also it's makes her dirty.

[TenkRealist]

No I wouldn't. It just means they don't value sex as much as me. If they liked someone and did it, that's understandable but yeah. Not my type.

[TenkRealist]

Why not? 1. STDs. 2. Potential to cheat is higher. 3. May value you less sexually. 4. You don't know who they've been with (imagine hearing from a random dude, I banged your partner) 5. Looser pussy. Why should you look over it? 1. More sexual experience. 2. Could possibly be more direct with sexual stuff.

[spartan55]

#2 and #5 are not true.

[BayTiger]

Yes I would. If having casual sex made you a bad partner I’d be disqualified myself. There’s nothing wrong with women who have casual sex.

[billmunch]

Yes, because it turns me on when my S/O has sex with other guys.

[Anonymous]

Fuck no.
I would fuck her but she has shown her value.
She is only good for her holes.
If she had other value, then she wouldn’t have been so open to allow random men to fill her with fluids.

[Anonymous]

No. I wouldn't knowingly date any woman with a high body count either.

[Straight2thepoint]

Y do you want to be included in their booty calls?

[Guy13]

No way…