What does it mean or what should I think when men I know, even men that I see at my sons school causally, or at football practice/games? Call me trouble. Should I consider that a compliment or derogatory? If I had a dollar for every time a man has said “Hey what’s up trouble?” Or “Here comes trouble.” Like why? Or what’s the reason? Harmless fun or something else? I’m 34 years old. Here’s a picture of me for context. Ladies I’d love your Opinions. If you’ve ever been called this before? And of course gentlemen please help!
Girlfriend you look way more younger then a 21 year old woman. I would have thought in that picture you were 19 . You look 19 way way much younger. Maybe they think you are super young.
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Sounds as though you seem to seek attention. Maybe flirting, possibly to the point that you’d have a fling w one of these men even if they were involved. Some of them may do the same as well k owing that they could get in trouble. It could also mean that they were lectured by their women about the type of girl they perceive you to be, trouble.
My guess is that if any of the wives saw their husbands even talking with you - there’s going to be trouble. Ma’am no disrespect but with your looks, you should be in a magazine - and no I’m not talking about playboy, unless you would like to choose to be. Anyway that was meant to be a compliment 🙂
Yep, she could crush my heart. It is a backhanded compliment which is better not said in that fashion. The person who says that lacks confidence…there’s a negative associated with the compliment. Already blaming your beauty and personhood for his failure. It’s the perfect example of “Bless his little heart”. People like this scare me as they usually are hypercritical and can never be fully truthful as everything is doubled meaning or cloaked. This guy would also say, “you look beautiful, today.,”…. but not everyday. Pure in Doing is difficult for one who speaks “in code”. Sorry for rambling 🙂
Ok. They should just say that then. Typically I don’t care. But it’s happened like 10 times this week while at work and the gym. And I was just wondering why trouble and should I be concerned or feel complemented. So thanks for your opinion.
Well, it's odd that all of them use the same exact word when flirting with you... But I don't think it's a bad sign... They don't mean you're actual trouble or mean lol... They just find you very attractive and charming
I’m not single actually, and I mostly keep to myself. They approach me. But if I’m standing in line or working out next to someone and they start a conversation typically I’ll engage just for the sake of not being rude. Not with any other intentions. See how it can be miss construed. I’m beginning to see it that it means different things to different people. And I guess it’s how I receive it.
No he’s my son’s father. I only have A son lol and where actually in the process of separating after 10 years. But no one knows that but us. Bc where still living together until our lease is up and I’d like to remain on good terms. But like I said they don’t know this. No one does until we figure it out. So it’s completely Irrelevant to them.
@NatalieIshereO Seriously? Openly showing/inviting sexual interest in people who aren't your partner? The fact I have to explain this tells me how damaged you are.
@NatalieIshereO Because your kids are a part of your family, you dig? Being an attention whore puts your whole family in jeopardy. Your family should be your priority, not getting attention from random Chads.
No way! I hate football. I support my son. His father is the meathead sport freak! 🙄 I just show up and keep to myself. But if someone approach’s me I’ll usually have some sort of conversation bc I don’t wanna be rude. There no motive behind it.
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