Guys, do you find it annoying if a girl keeps sharing her problems with you?

[Anonymous]

I have a guy friend I always turn to when I have problems. Because he's good at listening and giving advice. But I'm just wondering whether it's too much if I keep telling him my problems.

Do guys find it annoying? I tell him my problems because I trust him the most and I have told him this many times. But I wonder whether I should stop.

Though he does ask me from time to time if I was okay when he sees I have a lot on my mind. What should I do? Should I stop telling him my problems?

[MysticDevice]

Eventually yes it does get annoying. However, It depends on how much the guy likes said girl. And by "like" it could either be romantic or platonic.

It also depends on the problems themselves. I have two girl friends that do this.

One of them comes to me to complain about how our workplace treats her and I can sympathize with that.

The other complains how she's broke and never has any money, but that's cause she quit her job for no reason and didn't have another lined up. So I had very little sympathy.

[spartan55]

Fuck yes its annoying. That's why I don't have close female friends, because inevitably they all use me for that. Na, not for me, that's boyfriend territory.

[Snedger____]

Not if it's my girlfriend. If she's just a friend, i would get annoyed

[FireFox001]

Absolutely. I am nobody's "soul trashcan".

[ThebestIndian]

Nope. If it makes you feel good sharing feelings with him. Share. Do not bear them alone. You are lucky enough to have him.