Why is it so hard to let go of a guy who has lied and given you the silent treatment?

[Anonymous]

[nspencer]

Maybe your trauma bonded. You can look up trauma bond and narcissistic relationships and see if any other signs match it. Is this a cycle with this person? Like they lie, give silent treatment and then come back? If so that’s a giant red flag.

[Asker]

This is exactly what he does 😕

[nspencer]

Im sorry to hear that😪 try to have a conversation with him if he does not stop the childish behavior I would say let him go and go no contact if you can. It will get better I promise.

[Asker]

Thank you for your sincere advice. I appreciate it. You have helped me to reflect on things

[Steamnir]

Because you dont have plan b,

when u have multiple guys ready to give u attention, u ll give up on the one guy who doesn't care

[FilmGuy93]

The lack of closure just leaves you with a bunch of questions instead of anything helpful or productive.

[misogynistic_pig]

Because the men who do that are alpha men.

[Brando10222]

Cause you like or love him

[Anonymous]

what did he lie about?