Would you only see a woman as a lust object or would you look beyond it?

[Anonymous]

Just wanting to know what men think when they see a woman with big boobs.

If you just lust about her, would you just stare but never try to get to know her?

What would you do when you are interested in her? Just into her, like you want to date her.

I just see a lot of men stare and never just try to know. I think they just like what they see and leave it to that.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I want a best friend who has everything in common with me, so yes, but I also want her to be a lust object too, otherwise it's just a best friend, not a relationship.

I also want her to want both from me.

I prefer women do the approaching, but more than that I prefer I already know her when she does. If I see an attractive looking woman, I don't approach, because it's never been in a setting where I can determine anything about her, so I don't know if she's single, or straight, or if she likes the same hobbies or interests, or anything else.

For example, If she was in an arcade playing something I liked while wearing an anime shirt, I'd see a reason to think she might be my type, and would attempt to make conversation to seek friendship, but thats never happened (if it did, and we became friends, thats when she has a shot at me).

[TakingitEasy15243]

Big boobs alone aren't attractive. Big boobs on a decent to pretty girl that's well put together is different. Wherever or not I approach depends on the setting and if she's giving me an opening. I casually flirt everyday with girls I have an excuse to speak with. Sometimes in a random environment it's not as easy. Trust me I've been burned 4 or 5 times in my life so badly that it makes me rethink approaching. The few girls that are extremely rude ruin it for all girls because if I'm hesitant and my friends go through the same thing. Eventually no one approaches anymore which is becoming more and more common because of the few rude women out there

[mickmrly]

Because of todays world, I don’t usually stare at women too much in public but I can appreciate their personality if being around them enough. If I was interested I’d ask her if she wants to go for coffee sometime and see how it goes.
I think staring and getting more touchy should really wait until a guy and a girl know each other a bit first. That way is doesn’t get creepy or misunderstood.

[Guy13]

I would look beyond it as beauty fades but character and integrity are for life.

[DannyUk2017]

Today when you ask a woman if she "wants coffee" or to go out, they go like... is that the new..."wanna fuk me?" So no matter how good or bad looking... nah... if i don't interract with her at first, then, No asking out! 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

It depends on whether she brings more to the table than just her sexuality. Many modern women don't.

[Anonymous]

I'd want to get to know her AND have copious amounts of hot sex with her. Can't I do both?