Would you be with a woman who was with you for who you are. But not for what you looked liked? Was not initially attracted to you?

[Anonymous]

I know most women on this site will not understand this question which is why I'm kind of directing this at the guys. If you meet a woman and she's not physically attracted to you. But later gets to know you. And wants a relationship with you. Do you go ahead? Or are you turned off by the fact that she rejected you?

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, I'd only go with it if she's physically attracted to my body, mentally attracted to my mind, and has just about everything in common with me opinion, hobby and interest wise.

[TheSpaceGnome]

And I find her physically attractive on top of all that, and me and her have the same goals and lifestyle preferences, and she didn't drink, smoke or do any other drugs, and she doesn't have or want kids.

[Asker]

Read the question again. I said she did not find you physically attractive. She just got to know you. So she's looking past the lack of physical attraction.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes I know, and thats my response.

[Asker]

OK, answer the question I didn't ask.. fair nuff. 😆🙂

[Zolly99999]

You just described most of my past relationships

[Asker]

So you would then apparently. OK, thanks.

[Zolly99999]

Just be warned... some of them cheated on me with guys they were attracted to.
Some of the girls were not attracted to me at first but after they got to know me they became attracted to me

[Asker]

Yeah, that's kind of my point. I think women will settle for a guy that they're not really attracted to as kind if temp. boyfriend until what the really want comes along. Sorry that happened to you man. Hope everything's good for you now.

[Zolly99999]

I have learned to chose wiser now. But when you are lonely and think no girl wants you some times you make wrong choices

[Asker]

I feel you man.

[Zolly99999]

The biggest problem is... sometimes it works... but more often it doesn't but you will not know till you try.

[Jamie05rhs]

Sure! I don't mind.