Would you date the male or female version of yourself?

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I'm not sure if I would because I know that it would take a lot for me to be with someone like me.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

I've answered this question many times on GaG and my answer remains the same. Absolutely. As long as they're the feminine version of myself. That's literally what I'm looking for.

I want a partner with similar views. The less you disagree on important views like religion, politics, life choices, and just overall morality, the less you'll have conflict.

I want a partner with similar interests. They don't have to have the same interests with everything. They are girls and girls have feminine interests, while men have masculine interests. Our brains are wired to like different things in general. It would be nice if they liked talking about many of the same things or doing the same thing as me though. We could share so many experiences together that way.

Then there's similar sense of humor. If we don't laugh at the same kind of jokes, what are we even doing? That relationship would be dead in the water.

Then there's having aligning goals. I want to eventually live off grid and take part in homesteading... maybe live some van life for a while too. The relationship would only work if they like the idea of that kind of life as well.

Sexual compatibility is also important. In this sense we'd be the same, but different. Like I prefer being dominant in the bedroom. And I'd prefer my partner likes being submissive. That's the only way that works.

So yeah... give me the female feminine version of myself, and I'm all in.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Yes I would i mean it's a fantasy of my to meet someone like me at least for a week for many different reasons. Not only the good but the bad to in life beloved ourselves we do good but sometimes. Maybe we dont see recognize or recognize things that we're doing, and I would love to just see all of it from good to bad with somebody, just like me right in front of my face, so I can actually experience it, to understand it if so, and then change it. Because right now.
 As of this moment, I feel I'm a pretty good guy and I do a lot of good things, but who's to say that there are things that I just don't see. And maybe that I would not like that I'm doing So of course I say yes.  More than welcome her lol

Beckybooboo · Accepted Answer

No, for one thing, I am very critical of things I do! Imagine it was a version of me. Also, who would move furniture around when I wanna redecorate? It would be two people standing around either second guessing themselves or too weak to move it!

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Damn. What does a female knockoff of me look like? I don’t wanna know XD

sawno · Answer

Absolutely, if only I knew who she was. I would love that girl so absolutely much and its been hard finding a partner who has a lot of meaningful things in common with me. My ex in many ways was a female version of me, but of course with some differences that come with that as i'd probably have been a psychologist I was female.

I ultimately strive to have the traits i'd love to date myself. That type is my role model, so that someone doing the same thing would fit me and love me back for it. So by that very nature I wouldn't be able to stop loving that girl.

Purpleronnie · Answer

No , I think the optimum would be shared values and complimentary differences like having the same life outlook but each having strengths that go well together

The idea of dating a female carbon copy of me sounds boring and conceited like I need a mirror validation.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

I actually came pretty close already. We happened to have the same birthday, were both into history and books, food, and both had naughty thoughts. But I concluded after stopping seeing her that we were too similar, and it didn't lend to good chemistry. For example, a person like me is a 'joker' type, which means an 'audience' type is best suited, and too 'joker' types aren't good together. That's why I get along with my sister a lot more than this girl I dated shortly.

Levin · Answer

Might be narcissistic but that would be fucking ideal. She'd be hot, too. But realistically I need someone to balance me out a bit. Someone who do the social stuff because I can't be arsed with that.

aaron13547 · Answer

No way. I want someone who has strength where I lack it. Who is good at what im not. Who pushes me in all the ways I dont push myself. To date another me... that thought itself makes me think I might should just be alone.

insatiable_curiosity · Answer

Excellent hypothetical. I'd be willing to try it. It would be nice to have a partner know what I think and feel about various things as a given.

Nikki1989 · Answer

My husband and I are very similar in so many ways, I guess I am already living that one.

Lynx122 · Answer

I'd give it a try but no clue if it would work out it would definitely be an experience though :)

Zack-Bann · Answer

She’d be a pain in the ass for sure but I do believe her qualities outweigh her flaws  I don’t see why I wouldn’t date her

smashleyy · Answer

I like the idea of our views and sense of humour not clashing but two avoidant people? I fear we wouldn’t even make it past the talking stage

TwoDecisions · Answer

Yes, I'm someone I'd date. I'd not expect someone to date me, let alone marry me if I would take a toll and be a burden to be with.

Tarifa · Answer

Before answering this question, I would first need to determine if I wanted to meet a female version of myself.

DonaldDarko · Answer

No because shed think like I do and practice celibacy. Also it would be too much like incest in an odd way.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

I'm a lazy girl, so no, I wouldn't want that, but generally I would want it because I'm loyal and very horny.

Twalli · Answer

I'm surprised anyone wants to date me. I know I wouldn't. Granted, I know all the things that go on in my head, so that may be why. I guess I give out a decent enough vibe, that people might like me.

Zionne · Answer

it's definitely hard to be with someone like me lol

strateguy632 · Answer

I wish i could. Date myself or a lady same as myself!

RandomGirl42 · Answer

Oh, absolutely! I love me! We'd have so much fun together! 😊

RavVid · Answer

Nup. I want feminine virtues that I don't have.

David318578 · Answer

We would have the exact same likes and dislikes and the same sexual appetite? Yeah sign me up lol

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely I'll date myself..
Other then being too negative all the time.
I do earn, I am too romantic, and best part I'll be very happy to date someone like me.
No fighting no drama. Just pure love and adventures

Xawyx-2 · Answer

No I wouldn't, I prefer dominant girls, definitely not a female version of myself.

fivebyfour · Answer

Yes I would, then somehow swap bodies lol,,,

AngryCarl2 · Answer

No, I need a partner who is patient and solicitous. Whatever happened to opposites attract?

guesswhereivebeen · Answer

Yeah… she’d be awesome… as long as she didn’t look like me

Ironco · Answer

I won't, she would be one ugly looking female...😜

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Im sure we'd end up becoming different. I have an alter ego

Jerre · Answer

I’m not sure either. One of me is about all I take care of

Anonymous · Answer

No. A fair portion of the qualities that interest me contrast the qualities that I have.

Twodogs0525 · Answer

Hell yeah! I'm a catch.

NathanDavis · Answer

nah... I'm not into myself

FreyaRed · Answer

A weird but elegant Chad? I'll take him

Hagar88 · Answer

Body count too high

queenofcardio · Answer

I think so yeah

itsannalee · Answer

I’ll purpose him🤭🤭🤭

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

No I'm to high maintenance and expensive lol

jazzy34 · Answer

LOL now, that would be interesting. I’m not sure.

exitseven · Answer

I sort of married her.

dudeinohio · Answer

I would. Shares values and such

msc545 · Answer

No way would I do that.

Daytoday79 · Answer

Too strange... like kinda f*cking myself

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

I'm not even sure how to answer that

WhitneySnow · Answer

Not sure

Alex-Snow · Answer

Yes I would we could share a lot of fun orgasms!

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Yes i’m the best

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