Would you ever date the male/female version of yourself?

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aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure, they say opposites attract, so I'm not sure we'd even get along. 🤣 I tend to be hard headed, impatient, energetic, a bit hot tempered and excitable (though not as bad as I used to be), and talkative. I'm sure another version of myself and I would butt heads quite a bit!

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Definitely not! I prefer being with someone the complete opposite of me so there is no way I could put up with a male version of myself.

AmandaYVR · Answer

If I was male, and different, I might be attracted to me mentally/emotionally. I've been told what the appeal is/are. But I would never date myself. That's way too much of me! I want different.

MCheetah · Answer

Looks wise? My height, looks, weight, penis size, and complexion are all negatives. I wouldn't negatively judge a woman who had the same things as me (5'6" the female equivalent of my height, ugly, AWFUL looking body, non-existent tits like a 36C or something, and so on).

However, what women are into is the total opposite of my physical appearance. Men are more flexible and lenient with looks. However, I still make for one ugly woman. See for yourself!

Would you ever date the male/female version of yourself?

Personality wise? Absolutely. I'm smart, clever, witty, sharp-tongued, very creative, dependable, helpful, loyal, artistic, honest, a self improver, and so on. My only supposed "negative" (according to others) is that I can be too negative on myself. I'm trying to change that, but what others call "me being negative on myself," I don't really see, so it takes work to recognize these patterns more often.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Of course. Who else is better to trust than myself?
Go see the same bands, play same games, both lazy as each other so we won't complain at each for that, etc.
That's just 100% compatible. I suppose in bed though we would have to always switch roles of who is dom and sub tho. Just to make that fair. Which i feel i could do.
We would be able to bounce science and facts off each other, ponder about things. And best of all we could work together on writing.

Just would be perfect. That's why i would want to date some like myself, not someone different. Just to bad you have more chances of running into people totally different than someone totally alike. But probability wise there will always be a few that are.

MuffinBoi · Answer

Probably not. I reckon we'd make super great friends though, but I find that dating a gender bent version of yourself would likely get boring after a while, because you would agree on literally everything.

Besides, dating someone who is so similar to you would probably mean that nothing new is brought to the table in the relationship since you're effectively identical mentally.

LohrvsData · Answer

As someone who has been down that route, I can tell you that it's quite an adventure... for a little while. After a year, though, things got too "plain jane" for the both of us, and we decided to part on friendly terms. We have a hell of a blast as friends though! I guess the both of us missed the challenges of having something different in our lives.

Mango-man · Answer

Character wise? Probably not - we can't have two people with the exactly same approach to problems or stuff. Sure, it would be "low maintenance relationship", but it would be stagnant and without significant dynamics since we would agree on everything and thus have no reason to change or improve.

WhyAmEyeEvenHere86 · Answer

The real question is... would it be sex or masturbation?

On a more serious note, this is a question I ask myself every time I meet a cute woman with the same name. It seems like dating someone with just the same name is some next level narcissism type stuff. This thought experiment just took it to yet another level.

hahahmm · Answer

No because to me a relationship is about team work. If both people are the same then you don't need each other.

IAMNathanael · Answer

We'll click if we get to know eachother but both of us also don't like talking to people that much. We'll be like two magnets repelling each other.

MrHopper · Answer

Nah fuck that, i can't think of anything worse! Surprised when any one wants to date me... its like.. me? really? ... ahh your blind and deaf! ... that makes sense

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Not an exact clone but very similar would be perfect. I don't want the exact opposite, already done that and didn't work out.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I probably technically wouldn't a female version of myself, I honestly want to find a girl with her own identity and her own aspirations, of course we can share some activities but being completely identical seems rather pointless.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Seems like to me that at least you would be compatible. That can't be too bad.

Xtcy2083 · Answer

Yes I would Cleo, because we'd be the perfect match! :)

Dnc873 · Answer

I think I would have to see the female version of myself first lol. I'm not an ugly dude, but I could make one ugly bitch

Dinklex3 · Answer

Fit, attractive, cuddles 24/7, food being cooked for me, watching scary movies, dressing up, exploring, encouraging, fuck yes I absolutely would.

EmotionalMess · Answer

Yup, that'll be great. I look hot as a girl, according to the faceapp filter xd. Also we would perfectly understand each other so.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Oh yeah! Yes yes and yes. Where is she? I wanna see here psychology books and her sneakers collection

Agape93 · Answer

Nope lol two stubborn people like me don't coexist well

jess05 · Answer

Hmmm, I think so. Although, I may realize parts of myself I don't like. And that might be a bit disconcerting! 😅

Miristheiss · Answer

Sweeping yourself off of your feet eh?

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah I would, I know we would click and understand each other.

Cubus · Answer

Well, I am already quite shy for a guy, so as a girl I would be super shy. I think we could match together. I only don't know how my female version would look like :) but sure, I would date.

yknow156 · Answer

No. I'm a piece of shit, I wouldn't want to date a peice of shit.

FlutteringFeelings · Answer

Not at all. I have a babyface and I’m not attracted to guys with babyfaces.

St37xy11 · Answer

Yeah he would be hot and would be what I'm looking for lol

The_sweet_brat · Answer

🤣🤣🤣 Damn. I would, and I wouldn't at the same time.

sunshineglow · Answer

Some people say here opposites attract each other, but only alike ones love each other. 😊

Starla1234 · Answer

Looks wise- no Personality wise- hell yeah  😂

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, like someone with a similar background, same type of personality, mindset, priorities and so, but in a male body. At least I would give it a try :D

Mangospacho · Answer

No way. My wife would find out and then she would attack both of us but she’d only be charged with attacking me because technically she attacked the same person.

AviatorTom · Answer

Hell no! I want someone different. If all I want is myself, my hand can take care of that ;-)

blondfrog · Answer

Probably not cause I like thick and cubby girls lol.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I might find him attractive enough to hook up with but I wouldn’t date him. I couldn’t handle two of myself.

genericname85 · Answer

character wise, sure. but I don't know how a female version of me would look xD

XXblack88 · Answer

It would be interesting to say the least. But I don't think that would end well

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Well I did do one of those face gender swap apps a couple of years ago and fell in love so yeah lol.

crmoore · Answer

Probably not. Not to say I'm a bad person, I like who I am. But I like some contrast in my relationships.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would - I’m super nice

AdithyaR · Answer

Honestly that would be the only person who's find me attractive so yeah sure, why not.

dem_hero · Answer

Hmm. Date? Sure. Stay with forever? Who knows lol. It might get tiring

MrPlentiful · Answer

Genetic analysis shows most people inadvertently have done just that. At least have dated people more closely related than distantly related

Shiningtempest · Answer

@_cleopatra_ I am willing to date a female version of myself in order to have a successful relationship.

TrillXHippy · Answer

I would have liked to date the female version of myself. Same age, ethnicity, wants the same things in life (marriage/kids).

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe if he had a different personality because I feel like I’d be annoyed with him if he was the same as me.

nocturnalbreed · Answer

Could give it a try but not sure if it could work out.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Most definitely. I wish I had found her already; we should already have been married.

jasco · Answer

Mm maybe honestly if we both started working on ourselves than sure I would

TsAubreyKate · Answer

That’s dangerous our offspring would make hitler look like ghandi or ghengis khan look like JoJo siwa

TaleTeller · Answer

That would be hilarious! I don't know how I could stand all the strangeness but we'd watch Firefly 24/7 for a while... That would be good.

Guanfei · Answer

No, which is why, even if that pains me, I understand why girls don't want me.

Anonymous · Answer

I think having a different personality adds value to the relationship. Being able to compromise is important when doing different things, and going to different places.

BlueLust · Answer

Well, I guess we know what our kids would look like.

Bdsmaster · Answer

My female version in mentality probably yes but physical female version I don't think so, luv.

Jhonrembo · Answer

I believe so. But for sure a version of you I will go out😉

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think so. In being the female version I just think the lack of difference would make things boring if that makes sense. Also I hate myself so you know...

Better_off_here · Answer

i think so i have been told i am one good looking guy :)

Wowboi · Answer

We all do lol you're inside your body dating it everyday

Ninani · Answer

Of course, I'd be hot.

Flower7 · Answer

Yep, I would love that.

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