Would you ever date the male/female version of yourself?

[_Cleopatra_]

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I'm not sure, they say opposites attract, so I'm not sure we'd even get along. 🤣 I tend to be hard headed, impatient, energetic, a bit hot tempered and excitable (though not as bad as I used to be), and talkative. I'm sure another version of myself and I would butt heads quite a bit!

[Apple1996]

Definitely not! I prefer being with someone the complete opposite of me so there is no way I could put up with a male version of myself.

[AmandaYVR]

If I was male, and different, I might be attracted to me mentally/emotionally. I've been told what the appeal is/are.
But I would never date myself. That's way too much of me! I want different.

[MCheetah]

Looks wise? My height, looks, weight, penis size, and complexion are all negatives. I wouldn't negatively judge a woman who had the same things as me (5'6" the female equivalent of my height, ugly, AWFUL looking body, non-existent tits like a 36C or something, and so on).

However, what women are into is the total opposite of my physical appearance. Men are more flexible and lenient with looks. However, I still make for one ugly woman. See for yourself!

FaceApp Gender Swap

Personality wise? Absolutely. I'm smart, clever, witty, sharp-tongued, very creative, dependable, helpful, loyal, artistic, honest, a self improver, and so on. My only supposed "negative" (according to others) is that I can be too negative on myself. I'm trying to change that, but what others call "me being negative on myself," I don't really see, so it takes work to recognize these patterns more often.

[Xtcy2083]

Hang on just a sec. So there's an "app" that shows you how you would look if you were the opposite gender, AND this is the result that YOU got?
What the hell are you complaining about? Geez, why are you such a perfectionist? Your result is really pretty, and yes, I know about the make-up that "she" is wearing in those pictures.

[Daniela1982]

36C are not non existent.

[MCheetah]

@Xtcy2083
It's called FaceApp.
play.google.com/.../details

@Daniela1982
36C's are somewhat medium on a thin girl, but on a plus-sized/full figured woman (I'd weigh like 240-250 as a female), they're the equivalent of A cups because her overall size is larger.

[Daniela1982]

Those apps are not available unless you have a chromebook.

[nandana_n]

As a thin girl I can assure that this is cap 😃 36c are NOT non existent or common on a thin girl

[nandana_n]

And the female version of you is not ugly..

[Kaneki05]

Of course. Who else is better to trust than myself?
Go see the same bands, play same games, both lazy as each other so we won't complain at each for that, etc.
That's just 100% compatible. I suppose in bed though we would have to always switch roles of who is dom and sub tho. Just to make that fair. Which i feel i could do.
We would be able to bounce science and facts off each other, ponder about things. And best of all we could work together on writing.

Just would be perfect. That's why i would want to date some like myself, not someone different. Just to bad you have more chances of running into people totally different than someone totally alike. But probability wise there will always be a few that are.

[Kaneki05]

Though if they were like me too much they would be as much into women as i am which then would be a flaw in this whole plan. No doubt bestfriends would be awesome tho.

[MuffinBoi]

Probably not. I reckon we'd make super great friends though, but I find that dating a gender bent version of yourself would likely get boring after a while, because you would agree on literally everything.

Besides, dating someone who is so similar to you would probably mean that nothing new is brought to the table in the relationship since you're effectively identical mentally.

[LohrvsData]

As someone who has been down that route, I can tell you that it's quite an adventure... for a little while. After a year, though, things got too "plain jane" for the both of us, and we decided to part on friendly terms. We have a hell of a blast as friends though! I guess the both of us missed the challenges of having something different in our lives.

[Mango-man]

Character wise? Probably not - we can't have two people with the exactly same approach to problems or stuff. Sure, it would be "low maintenance relationship", but it would be stagnant and without significant dynamics since we would agree on everything and thus have no reason to change or improve.

[WhyAmEyeEvenHere86]

The real question is... would it be sex or masturbation?

On a more serious note, this is a question I ask myself every time I meet a cute woman with the same name. It seems like dating someone with just the same name is some next level narcissism type stuff. This thought experiment just took it to yet another level.

[hahahmm]

No because to me a relationship is about team work. If both people are the same then you don't need each other.

[MrPlentiful]

Thats not what the fenale version of you would be like. Theyd be you but feminine

[hahahmm]

@MrPlentiful A female version of me would have masculine traits and be some kind of butch lesbian leader. Ain't happening. But yeah, if we remove enough of the stuff that makes me 'me', eventually you'd end up with a feminine woman and the question is totally pointless.

[IAMNathanael]

We'll click if we get to know eachother but both of us also don't like talking to people that much.

We'll be like two magnets repelling each other.

[MrHopper]

Nah fuck that, i can't think of anything worse! Surprised when any one wants to date me... its like.. me? really? ... ahh your blind and deaf! ... that makes sense

[Aerissa_Jade]

Not an exact clone but very similar would be perfect. I don't want the exact opposite, already done that and didn't work out.

[FinalFantasyBro]

I probably technically wouldn't a female version of myself, I honestly want to find a girl with her own identity and her own aspirations, of course we can share some activities but being completely identical seems rather pointless.

[Daniela1982]

Seems like to me that at least you would be compatible. That can't be too bad.

[Xtcy2083]

Yes I would Cleo, because we'd be the perfect match! :)

[Dnc873]

I think I would have to see the female version of myself first lol. I'm not an ugly dude, but I could make one ugly bitch

[Dinklex3]

Fit, attractive, cuddles 24/7, food being cooked for me, watching scary movies, dressing up, exploring, encouraging, fuck yes I absolutely would.

[EmotionalMess]

Yup, that'll be great. I look hot as a girl, according to the faceapp filter xd. Also we would perfectly understand each other so.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Oh yeah! Yes yes and yes. Where is she? I wanna see here psychology books and her sneakers collection

[Agape93]

Nope lol two stubborn people like me don't coexist well

[jess05]

Hmmm, I think so. Although, I may realize parts of myself I don't like. And that might be a bit disconcerting! 😅