Would you date someone, if they were the most good-looking person you had ever seen, but they had different social/political views than yours?

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And their core values didn't align with yours? (for example, if they were racist and viewed a certain group of people as inferior to others and with prejudice)

PizzaDaddyo · Accepted Answer

Great question, this one really made me have to think and I almost was gonna have my fun and give a lame more bogus answer but, no.

(Assuming she’s 11/10 externally and our view points don’t match)

Short answer: Nothing would really come from it. Lol who wouldn’t want to hook up with the most beautiful partner ever? As far as a relationship tho, I couldn’t be around someone I’m not really into like that…

(Yatta yatta…)
…Looks will attract me and are quite frankly a must but for me not as important as their personality and how they treat others/themselves. I’m personally not really interested in dating someone I don’t like both in/externally. Which is kinda why it makes looking for a partner for me sucks ass but I don’t care and I’m not changing my standards at all. Looks can be so difficult and deceiving since as I have mentioned earlier, they are a must for me. This doesn’t mean that’s all I care about. I just know what I like and have an acute acquired taste.

Speaking for all men:
Men need both respect and appreciation that’s really all… obviously more “woman initiated” sex may be beneficial for both parties if he’s the one doing all the initiation.
No man wants a “Bitchin ass Bitch” in his life. Not one. Not one I Know. Wouldn’t want to know him. Nor would I care about whom.
“I can’t wait to go home and hear my girl/wife come at me with not just one but a series of complaints after a long stressful day working with a bunch of degenerates that don’t know how to do their jobs.”
- said no man ever… because a real man will think exactly like this and will still suck it up and carry on.

Guys know how to save or suppress their own feelings like an art knowing when to “bitch” about things to one another and let it all out when they see each other next. Lmfao “guys don’t know how to express their emotions…”, kinda true.

My quote:
“Men are pros at expressing augmented feelings, suppressing real feelings. Men learn how to act and some are better actors than others. Men lack knowing when the time is right for like anything that involves conflict and may avoid them all together.”

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

What leftist women consider bigoted nowadays:

guys who think preferred pronouns are ridiculous and just confuse everybody.
guys who vote Republican especially if they voted for Trump. There are reasons why made no difference
guys who didn’t support BLM 3 years ago. It’s plain as day now it’s complete bullshit but back then if weren’t pro BLM you were considered racist.
guys who understand what socialism really is, the horrifying history and how it destroys nations.
And now it’s guys who aren’t “free Palestine” because nobody in their right f*cking mind supports terror organizations which Hamas is proud of.

It doesn’t matter to these women if these guys normally treat everybody decent just as long as they were treated fair to begin with. Doesn’t matter if they guy is friends/coworkers with minorities, gays, Muslims and even treats trans people fine in person (that is me in real life by the way)

No that’s not good enough to for you to do your thing and I will do mine nowadays. Not good enough that you have never done anything wrong to anybody. Instead if you don’t mouth and think woke you now qualify as a racist, sexist, xenophobic, transphobic, etc.

Bethany22 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I would, but I would discuss a clear end date for that relationship. I would still go out with them, as maybe their views will teach me something I didn't know. Also, I get to sample their personality type to see how I like dating that personality. Of course you can do all of that as friends, but even if you give a clear end date to the relationship, you still find yourself really trying to see the other person's perspective, because emotionally, you still can't help but want to find excuses to keep them in your life in a way that you wouldn't have the same pressure as friends. And then when you break up, although you will miss the physical chemistry, you will feel extremely relieved that you no longer have to try adopting someone else's beliefs that you're not comfortable with, as well as glad you gave it a try, because you wound up learning why that person has the beliefs that they do (that there is actually logic to their thinking, despite you not being convinced to be racist yourself).

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I view beauty and ugliness in binary terms, and if the person is a morally ugly person, their bodies will also be ugly to me, regardless of how physically beautiful they may think they are. Just like God does not let an evil person into heaven just because they have nice hair and clothes, if the guy is an evil person, I do not care how tall and fit he is, or how many degrees he has, I will think he is ugly cause his heart is ugly.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

A woman’s physical beauty is a powerful thing, but it only attracts- it can’t keep. At least not in any healthy relationship. Would I date them? Sure. There would probably, once the potential for a real relationship got serious, be a time where you need to decide if you could have a person like this in your life. I think the answer is unlikely to be yes. Having known some pretty people and gotten to know their true selves later, I’d say it’s safe to claim the physical beauty fades instantly when some personality flaws are revealed.

236color · Answer

I have stopped communicating with members of my own family over their support for the 45th President. I felt bad about it until someone expressed it this way, after describing all the evil shit he had done, she said "If you're okay with that, I'm not okay with you."

DarkSpectrum811 · Answer

If one is overly racist, sexist, uptight, or homophonic that’s a major turnoff. You can pull it off if the personality is there. The things guys in particular will put up with us insane and I used to be one of them in being a buffoon.

If they’re views come out a ton and make you cringe, you know when to bolt. Not everyone that identifies with a party thinks exactly like the party. It’s doable unless they are exhausting and annoying not to mention creepy.

Staximus · Answer

There's some core values that most people have and that's not negotiable. Like "don't be a piece of shit". No beating, no cheating, no stealing, no lying, no drug addicts, no racists, don't be mean to kids and old people, no bums, freeloaders or non-contributors.

NathanDavis · Answer

being racist is not a political view... it's ignorance, vile and wrong AF..

provokeesmokee · Answer

Nah, I date for values. A racist or fascist might think they look good, but they look like gnolls once they speak to me.

Like Andrew Taint - people say he looks good, but honestly? He looks really weird to me. Bug eyed, chronically constipated, etc.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I already tried it, and it didn't work out.. I don't mind political views, but core values are important.. Unfortunately Political views seem to go along with Core values these days.

lightbulb27 · Answer

maybe to understand them and gain experience... who wants to make assumptions? but I'm not interested in signing up for hell, especially at home.

aceleon · Answer

no, i normally don't do date and i wouldn't tolerate a snob also too much clashing views does not make a good or healthy couple, harmony is the key.

curlyfry14 · Answer

I would never date anyone that values didn’t align with mine. People can have their differences and opinions of course, but things as big as racism are unacceptable and I don’t care how good looking they are they’re disgusting to me if they don’t have good values in life. I couldn’t put up with it and I would never want to connect myself to someone like that.

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

😂😂😂😂😂😂i have very imposing personality  If you or anyone stay with me u will start following my beliefs i think I'm very inspiring 😂😂😂😂

Count_de_Monte_Volo · Answer

If you mean opposite and is offensive to me, no. They don’t have to have exactly the same beliefs though. Some might even conflict but be tolerated.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I wouldn't. I know, I can be carried out by my emotions, so it wouldn't make any sense to be in such a relationship.

Dinklex3 · Answer

It’s fine if they had different social/political views; just not racist or some dumbass extremist.

Ju_nishi · Answer

That would be a no-no for me. Beauty is a good thing to have, but not mandatory. Some core values are mandatory.

EmmaMary · Answer

No absolutely not, there would quite simply be too much clashing of personalities.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

Nope. Unfortunately values/beliefs and politics are the most important thing you need to be compatible with in a relationship.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, good looks don't make up for not feeling compatible with the person I'm dating.

IceCreamSandwich · Answer

No, of course not. I want to date a good person.

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Difficult. If I didn’t like them as a person, they would just be a fuck toy and it wouldn’t last.

Fuentes · Answer

No I wouldn't dare date a sjw women, she would try turning the kids gay or trans, she would be mentally ill. Fuck no

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, that would never work.

jimmy2 · Answer

Yes all I had to do with my wife was let her watch both national convection and she changed like that

Anonymous · Answer

There is one girl who I like who honestly probably could shift my viewpoint to anything.

Starrrboy · Answer

Nope.. totally not worth it.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

For relationship no. Casually yes

Sonjita · Answer

No way in hell

colaman94 · Answer

Nope. That quickly, nope 🫣

Anonymous · Answer

Currently am but would not again

Nifrayu · Answer

Not a chance.

pickles77 · Answer

Looks don’t make up for values

slatyb · Answer

No, I wouldn't.

sparklycoconut · Answer

nope

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