Guys what do you think women need to understand about men, that we don't understand? Girls what do you want to know about men?

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StrongMale · Accepted Answer

Okay ladies.. here are some things I feel you may not know about men, that may be helpful to you in your understanding of what makes us tick...

Men deeply desire admiration from a woman, as we are far more insecure and unsure of ourselves than we let on.

Men need compliments and praise for the things we do, and do well, and we don’t get them nearly enough.

There are two main reasons guys desire sex so strongly. 1. We actually need it physiologically (semen/sperm release/prostate health & higher testosterone levels). And 2. For men, sex fulfills a significant portion of the physical intimacy of affectionate touch we so badly need, but is sorely lacking in our social interactions. (Boys/men just don’t receive affectionate touch in our lives the way girls/women do)

Sometimes, when men are quiet, we really aren’t thinking anything at all. We just don’t want to hear ourselves talk.

The male brain is compartmentalized, and the sex and love compartments are separate, with a doorway between them. Thus, we can close that doorway and have sex without love, and love without sex, but both are better when the doorway is open.

There is nothing in this world that is more beautiful to a man, than a beautiful nude woman.

Men don’t actually care that much about a woman’s body being ‘perfect’, we just want you to own it and feel sexy, and that makes you verrrry sexy to us.

Men desire to be ‘seen’ and ‘heard’, and treated with dignity. I think most men are tired of being the butt of tv commercial humor, and of being labeled ‘toxic’ with the broad brush of radical feminism.

We men are far more sensitive than women sometimes realize.

There is more, but that’s a good start! Hope these insights help!

Sixgunsound · Accepted Answer

Most men like most women are decent people trying to make it through the day. It’s the small number of very vocal assholes in both sexes that ruin it for everyone. The average guy does respect you and wants to provide for and take care of you, so don’t try to transform him into a woman who is dependent on government because then you both will be and that benefits nobody. there are going to be things that men and women just aren’t going to see the same way. We are a two parent species and it takes both parents to successfully raise a well-adjusted child of either sex. Women, specifically the small but vocal minority in the feminist movement, have created the current dating situation, as well as the current beta situation. You can fix this, if you actually wanted to. Allow me to be the first, if nobody else has told you, but civilizations that do not have strong masculine men fall. Strong masculine men are better providers, better fathers, and the kind of person you want in front of you when the door or window gets busted in the middle of the night. Mothers and romantic partners have to step up and both teach and respect masculinity. This fear-based hostility to masculinity is hurting women as well, and it needs to stop.

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

I’ve learned along the way, all you have to do is ask them. About anything you want to know.

If they don’t want to tell you there is usually a good reason for it, they just don’t trust you quite enough yet. Nothin’ wrong with that.

I think a lot of woman mistakenly get hurt in that stage. When if they just waited a bit the man will tell them in their own time. The woman then having earned that trust by letting up the pressure.

beebella · Accepted Answer

If I told you what I really wanted to know, I'd get attacked by hundreds of GaG men. 😂

Anonymous · Answer

We’re not women. Stop thinking like women when it comes to men n what you think we’re thinking. We don’t get all giddy w things like flowers, candles, etc. A lot of times when we’re quite it’s usually cause we’re trying to figure some things out. Don’t go poking away at it. When he’s ready to talk he will talk. We’ve been programmed to fix things since we were kids, that includes things w our family. I know it makes you stress out not knowing what’s going on but that’s usually how we figure things out. You don’t need a hundred ways to please a man, probably only need 5 things to make us happy. Stop looking to women on how to please men. Men know men, not women. We show love, appreciation by purchasing things for you.

NathanDavis · Answer

we all should try to listen and understand the one men or woman in front of us... instead of trying to understand ALL of them, as if they were ALL the same, because we're not... lol

Iron_Man · Answer

Sometimes we want our downtime we wanna watch football with our friends and we don’t want to be side tracked to take off to run errands and miss the game. Its very important for us also you’re very welcome to come along and we want you there and we want your motivation as well

20yearsolder · Answer

But when we're quiet, we're not always thinking of things. I guess when you women are quiet their shit running through your head. Sometimes that's the case for me but a lot of times I'm just chilling. Nothing specific is running through my brain

BJP21 · Answer

Its not always about us sticking our dick in you. Im seeing that come up quite a bit here on GAG. Its making me think if I approach you and want a fun date, I don't want you thinking its me wanting sex.

AviatorTom · Answer

Women should learn that, unlike women, who are complicated, men are very simple creatures. Feed us, take good care of us, and we'll do good things.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

We aren't mind readers, we will never be that cool.

UnknownSwede · Answer

That we can be very fragile and insecure. Sometimes it's often thought that men should just suck it up because they are men.

Anonymous · Answer

That most of us are good guys, but the few assholes make us all look bad.

EaterPeter · Answer

We are claustrophobic and attached at same time. Don't come too close don't go too far.

Anonymous · Answer

wow big question lol... if they know anything lol

Calenderagressive · Answer

If it's a man and they're a virgin at 30 stay away

exitseven · Answer

We are not totally indestructible

Zolly99999 · Answer

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