Women, what is something men should know about women? Men, what is something women should know about men?

[MementoMori777]

i dont wanna see any fights, toxic behavior or any harassment in the opinions below, im deleting shit so remember im always watching because i have eyeballs and i love using them 👉👀👈

[Siri137]

I could write an entire 'MyTake' on this topic. Actually, scratch that; I could write a book.

Many men (though thankfully not all) seem to be under the impression that only the "top 10 percent" of men are actually sought by most women, and the rest are "left over" and wind up becoming MGTOW or incels or whatnot. Not true, not true at all. I don't care how tall you are, or how much money you make. I don't care about your "career" or whether or not you go to the gym, and you don't have to look like a movie-star. Do you know what I really care about? Integrity. Honesty. Openness, intelligence, a sense of humour and empathy.

Open your eyes and look around you. Get out and about in the real world, away from the fake world of social media and computer games and all that, and you'll see wherever you go couples that aren't Chad and Stacy. You'll see normal people, ordinary people, people who don't look like Instagram "models", and don't drive fancy sports-cars and live on yachts. All that crap is FAKE, as fake as a three dollar bill. Ignore that rubbish and right from the start you'll feel better about yourself. :)

[MementoMori777]

Siri you really could write a whole book about it, this is true tho, there's many men that had their mentality manipulated by the media and they believe all women are a certain way and then take their frustrations out on them, these are some good points you made and im glad you put it out there, i recommend you get started on that book lol

[Siri137]

LOL, thanks :D

[devilish-cutie]

That they need to make a woman safe and comfortable in order for woman to "surrender" to them

That women want men that are initiative and can handle rejection

That if a woman is not sexually open its cause we r very sexsually shamed and we always have risk of pregnancy

That social expectation that we always shave our bodies limits our freedom in terms of sex and activities that require us to shave, same goes for period

That we fear being attacked, raped and even killed by unknown men cause we r physically weaker and there r very bad men out there, we dont know if u r one, so dont take it personally (see first point)

That money and height is attractive to us in a man but it is not crucial, eg. it is more important that a man is ambitious and hardworking than rich

Probs there r more, these i remembered...

[MementoMori777]

interesting points, i agree, mostly with the protecting part 😁💯

[Anonymous]

That men have feelings. I'll repeat because you didn't hear that the first time MEN have FEELINGS. I know women will say they know men have feelings. Well if that were true you wouldn't reject them repeatedly and then expect them to keep coming back for more. What you mean when you say you know men have feelings is you know they're capable of feeling your emotions. And that you care about them when you're in a relationship. But honestly that's as far as it goes. If you want more men to approach you you have to give them a reason why.

[Meropatrick]

I think women need to know that marriage isn't a fairytale. And stop treating it as such. Marriage is something you need to work on, it involves a lot of effort and if the man isn't making you happy leave. If the man is trying to make u happy then u must equally try to be his everything

[MementoMori777]

very beautiful words my friend, some women seem to see marriage like its a normal relationship not knowing its basically like an oath and its much different than a normal relationship

[Meropatrick]

👍👍🙌

[nolookingbackx]

I think it's important for us to be listened and noticed 😊 I could notice lack of communication and attention in some long-lasting relationships. It's good when a man can always appreciate and compliment his woman if she constantly puts effort into looking attractive. And talking is important to us. Not avoiding less pleasant topics, as well as talking about everyday stuff and simply giving attention as mentioned before. Of course, it goes both ways.

[MementoMori777]

im more of the type to make a woman feel beautiful even if they dont put all the effort most women do, i believe a man should make their woman always feel beautiful and mostly in their full natural form, im taking notes tho 😆🤓📝

women should be more open to admitting they want attention, i spoke to a girl that i told her to be straight forward with me and she would always admit when she wants attention and she did, it makes things more simple and i do believe if the communication between the couple is that strong, that relationship is gonna get to places 🤣

[nolookingbackx]

You're right, making a woman feel beautiful when she's all natural is even more important. That's even better, I really love your attitude.
That's true, women should be more open and this is something I've learned through the years. We should never assume that anyone should know anything when we don't speak about it and feel offended because a man wasn't able to read our minds. But I also meant situations when a woman is open, but a man ignores her and doesn't respect her needs.

[MementoMori777]

yep a woman shouldn't feel like she is required to prep up for their guy, now if she wants too then thats good, it shows effort which is healthy but she shouldn't see it as an obligation and yes i agree there's many men out there that lose patience for their woman and stop putting in the effort thats required to keep their woman happy and thats not good and no one should expect a relationship like that to last.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I think something we should both learn about each other is sexual education on how reproduction works. Lots of guys are criminally undereducated on female anatomy, but then again some women are too about their own bodies.

Personally, about guys, I'd want to know why they seem incapable of listening to what women want unless it comes in bullet points.

[MementoMori777]

why would you say knowing that is so important? 🤔

if both people know how to reproduce then why is it such of importance for them to know exactly how it works?

and about that last part, it depends, most men want things as simple as possible, women can complicate things more than it has to be so it can create a block of ignorance that makes it harder for a guy to listen, that of course depends on what women want, because women want different, if you can give an example Bri maybe i can try and give you an answer youd be happy with.

[MementoMori777]

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[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Everyone should know about the reproduction system more than "stick dick in for x minutes and make baby". If we did know more we wouldn't have half the questions on this site and less pregnancies overall.

I dont have a specific example, but it could be as basic as how we are feeling in a day. A guy just wants to hear, "I'm sad, bring me ice cream and hold me to fix it." They generally don't want to hear why they are sad and sometimes we don't know what we need to fix it and that drives guys crazy because they have a need to fix everything they deem broken.

[MementoMori777]

you do know most of the sexual questions on here are trolls right? 😂

how would knowing the anotamy of pregnancy prevent pregnancy? if im not mistaken peeople aren't going stop having sex because they know that the sperm cell fertilizes the egg and grows into a fetus, people just like the feeling and aren't responsible with it, has nothing to do with the science of it, the most it would do is let people know why it takes 9 months 😂

and yes mostly when it comes to women, good guys dont like seeing women broken and they gotta fix it and its simple to men, its broken, then fix it, now in order to fix the solution ou must start with the core that created the problem but if anything a guy would want to do the fixing first and hearing it later lol, some things can be fixed without knowing what broke it tho but i do understand women want to vent it but to a guy fixing the problem is the first priority and everything else after 🤣

[MementoMori777]

protecting and caring for a woman is in a mans nature, weither they know the problem or not 😆

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

It's been proven that better sex education to teens lowers pregnancy rates. It might not be doing much for you or I, but some adults for sure need some sort of lessons.

And yes, that is the problem. Sometimes, there isn't going to be a fix other than listening and empathy...

.. but bring the ice cream too. That helps lol

[MementoMori777]

well i personally believe the proof is bull cause I've never asked someone why they are a virgin and they reply with "the pregnancy anatomy stopped me wheew, crazy stuff" 😂

and i believe the best solution to this problem is to let the guy do his attempt before opening up on the problem, let him calm down cause normally they can fall into an instinctive stress and pressure when they see a woman crying or broken in some way, if they feel like they made the situation a bit better, it mentally helps them as well, then you speak of the problem

and ice cream first, noted Bri 🤓📝

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Mint chocolate chip, if you're asking for me anyway lol

I guess that makes some sense to let guys try and fix it their way, but if they make it worse, then that's on them, and they better listen extra hard while she goes off after it lol

[MementoMori777]

i will make sure to bring you some virtual mint chocolate chip ice cream if i ever see a venting question from you i promise 😆💯

and no lie if the guy makes it worse thats on him and they better find a way to fix it or unclog them ear holes and start listening like a good student fingers cross cause he's doing something wrong 😂

[Alli39]

That being polite/kind is different from sexual or romantic interest 😭 (Not to be rude to all y'all that can tell the difference, but I've met way too many dudes that can't.)

[MementoMori777]

no offense taken, i know there's men that hear "hi thank you" and they are like "blowjob?" 😂

[hiyamotherfers]

That you dont have to go above and beyond to always please a woman. Like yesterday I was craving hot cheese and when I got home I found my brother had bought me cheese sticks. I was so happy I literally jumped up and down

[MementoMori777]

i think all men know food keeps women happy 🤣😆

[hiyamotherfers]

its so true!

[DextroShade]

We don't really care about your money or career and it won't make you more attractive to us.

[Unit1]

Not all men hate feminism/feminists, drink beer like it's the essence of life or want a housemaid and sex slave girlfriend to be held their financial hostage.

[Iron_Man]

Women love to have deep conversation and communicate heart to heart. Most men like to communicate through where is my dinner and through sex

[JoyGirl]

We want men, not boys. 😌

[SolitarySolace]

Than stop dating liberals

[JoyGirl]

@SolitarySolace Pardon me? 😂

[MementoMori777]

no lie thats that lonely lady with 10 cats attitude 😂

[JoyGirl]

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[Anonymous]

My vagina.

[MementoMori777]

okay bro 😂

[Likes2drive]

We men can’t read minds