I don’t know if it’s little known or not, but ladies need to know, especially now, in the midst of gray sweatpants season, that flaccid, pants-on package assessments are NOT reliable indicators! Speaking on behalf of a friend, lmao
Number one that all men are different the same as all women are. A lot of women don’t like it when men project past women onto them. It’s the same way projecting anger form past people who don’t deserve it will chase someone off.
Number two playing hard to get will do the opposite. Men who are looking for a genuine connection number one don’t want to waste time on someone who doesn’t genuinely want them. Number two it’s hard to tell if she’s playing hard to get or just genuinely isn’t interested. Number three he knows that if she wants him for real. She will be direct and not be playing games. Men who play games and men who are desperate that you genuinely don’t want will be the ones who cannot take no for a answer.
That men also have standards. Men are entitled to standards too and men who have any self respect will have them. The kind of men who will date someone who has nothing to offer aren’t going to be the kind of men you want.
Why do you get the feeling most men just say whatever to agree with a woman’s opinions on everything just so they can get her in the boudoir?
TMen live in the “now”-they pretend to want long term commitment only to get benefits “now” because women sacrifice thinking it will make men stick around
For men, dating is really simple: They try to give impression or straight up lie that they want to a long term relationship because they KNOW that women sacrifice their benefits to men expecting it makes him stick around
Girls there’s no need to be embarrassed when a guy leaves you because 99% likely he was only pretending to want to be there long term because he wanted the benefits you would provide “now”. He never saw or cared for any of your value beyond benefits
A lot of women try to prime themselves for relationships with difficult and painful sacrifices when what men really want is emotional benefits and emotional harmony. I have met people who build up their money and visual beauty but they tear down their capacity to be a caring and sweet human being.
The other thing is, a girl cannot attract a good guy by being lazy. If she is lazy, she will attract a villain or a guy just as lazy as her.
When I say don't be lazy, I'm not referring to high heeled shoes or stair master work outs to tone your body. I am referring to cooking, cleaning, earning money, running errands, getting paid for hobbies, upgrading your education etc...
That we actually have feelings as well and we love to be treated with kindness and respect trust and loyality from our partners’ and we Love intimacy and affection, as much as possible with her. I hate when girls’ act like we just want to have sex with her to get off on her, especially when we are in a relationship with her. We want intimacy and affection to be closer to her , that’s how us men express our feelings towards her. Most females’ just assume he just wants to get off on her and that’s it , if that was the case , we would just hire a prostitute or escort to come suck and fuck us and not be in a relationship at all. Or just run around screwing random girls’ for the hell of it. Most of us men want a relationship with a girl to feel loved and safe with just her. If she with holds intimacy and affection from us , then we don’t feel loved and valued and appreciated by her. Which could push him to go elsewhere.
Women need to know if he's in a relationship with someone else or if someone that knows him thinks they are in a relationship that he claims not to know about lol
We don't care about your job, your salary, your education, your financial accomplishments. Bragging about these things is actually a massive turn off and a red flag.
What we do care about is your ability to care, your kindness, your competence in managing a home and finances. We care that you can bring peace. We care about your loyalty. Your honesty. And so on.
Whether it's little known or not, it pays to reiterate it to infinity.
Men are about hierarchies. Men think in hierarchies. Men compete in hierarchies. Men want hierarchies. Men need hierarchies. Cooperation? Yes, within hierarchies.
Thus he will either see her above him (pedestalizing) or below him. Not on eye level.
Men are extreme. Extremely intelligent or extremely dumb. Extremely right or extremely left. Ghosting or love bombing. Live and let live? Kill or be killed. All or nothing.
That we're just fine by ourselves, we don't need dating, marriage, or relationships we find toxic, stressful, or insincere. We actually do have standards, values, and rules of conduct we follow and expect women to follow as well or they can move on without us. We're not all simps and refuse to be treated as such. We don't care of what you think of yourself but rather its what we think of you that's important to us and we live by our standards. When it comes to our beliefs and outlooks on life and we live it as we prefer in a way that keeps us happy, not afraid to be alone when it comes to women.
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We know that you're always looking to upgrade from us, but some deny it, or just don't care.
We sit with our legs spread because our hips are angled outwards and it hurts to keep our legs together. That, and it compresses our balls.
We care 100x more about feminine behavior and physical appearance than about your career success.
There are certain truths about sexual attraction that 99.9% of men will never tell you. I won't tell you either. Your gut and eyes already tell you, but the entire world works together to lie.
I don't know, personally i think that she needs to know that i'm the head of the house which means i like to be dominant, i'm just like that... I believe in equality that we both are the same as value and everything but when it comes to leadership, i'm the leader, there will never be two leaders!
Showing subtle signs of interest doesn't work. and if a men get nightfall then it doesn't mean he is thinking about sex all the time, his body is making so much semen and releasing it on its own. misconceptions: men spread their legs when sitting not because they want to show their dominance but because their testicles need space. bulge in pants doesn't mean that dick is hard, but testicles are big or tight, and scratching privates doesn't mean masturbation.
Just like women, men are diverse individuals with unique personalities, experiences, and needs, even though many men seem all the same online. In the real-world, men are far more diverse.
We care a lot more than many women seem to think. Especially the emotionally healthy men. LIke we DO actually like seeing you happy and enjoying things.
The better looking the guy the more likely they are to cheat. There are a lot of guys who like good girls. Being a slut isn't something most guys are approving of. Sex isn't as important to some of us. Date someone your mom would approve of. Bad boys never become good men..
That men are not stupid and pick up on things women don't say. Women show men who they are all the time, the only people they think they're fooling are men.
Most men don't receive much physical contact that's nonsexual and supportive, so they're starved for hugs and friendly body contact even though they rarely admit it.
If we we're interested in dating women who wears a lot of makeup, we'd join a dating site for clowns. All the men I know, self included, hasn't joined a dating site for clowns.
This is more for girls I guess but when you're young (12-22), especially the younger half, a hard-on can spring up on you at almost any time. Doesn't necessarily mean you're turned on by present company.
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