If a guy says “take care”?

[Anonymous]

Is there an undertone to that.. like y’all are never going to talk again or he doesn’t plan on it

but when I said goodbye he text 🥺

but we both agreed to stop talking tho but it’s still so painful for me to let go

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+1 y

He also said there’s confusion between us bc he sees me as a friend. He doesn’t want a relationship

[Guy13]

Yes, it is the same as good-bye but nicer words. He wants the best for you. He does not hate you.

[Asker]

I guess if he really liked me he wouldn’t say goodbye

[Guy13]

He does not love you but he likes you and wants the best for you.

[Asker]

How would you know what he wants for me

[Asker]

You could never care or want the best for someone and leave. You never cared about them

[Guy13]

If they never cared he will still be there using you and ready to treat and toss you liked a piece of garbage. It could be lot worse and he chose NOT to crush you by stringing you on

[Asker]

I just don’t understand. Why put up with all my craziness..

I just don’t understand why he doesn’t want be by now. After all this

[Asker]

Do you think maybe he’s not over his ex

[Guy13]

It seems like he is not over his past relationship (s). May be really deep stuff happening here.

[Asker]

He was in a 3 year relationship with someone and they broke up almost 2 years ago. I always ask him if he’s over her and he says that he is.

He says that he’s so over her
He actually misses her sisters more than he actually misses her
He says he feels indifferent towards her. He doesn’t hate her but he doesn’t love her
He also said that he only thinks of her when I bring her up. She doesn’t really cross his mind

He’s been honest about everything with me and I do feel like he would tell me if had some feelings for her.. but again I don't know. I really want to believe that he just doesn’t want a relationship

[Guy13]

Go with it and behave like it. He’s watching

[Asker]

I’m sorry what do you mean? Watching what?

[Guy13]

He is watching your behavior and reactions

[Asker]

Yeah I think he thinks I’m unstable.. I don't know

I’m not jealous I just wanted to know if the reason he doesn’t want a relationship is because of his ex or he just doesn’t want one

[Asker]

Do you think he’s not over her or? They still follow each other on social media

But he isn’t the petty type at all. And the broke up on good terms. He said they both agreed to split. He put his career over her

[Guy13]

Sounds like he is in love with her still... a little bit.

[Asker]

Why you say that?

[Danny_dan92]

He let go