My spouse used to hate job events. He preferred staying home. Suddenly he wants to join every single event.
They work during the day & party during the night, then sleep at hotels. He's changed a lot after he changed jobs. Like.. a lot. I said I noticed these changes, but he denied it and invited me to join him once to see what he did/meet his coworkers.
I waited at the hotell til 9 pm, cause he had promised that I could eat with them but suddenly I wasn't allowed.
When he picked me up to ho to the party he strictly told me not to show him any affection cause he didn't want anyone to know we were a couple..
He didn't spend much time with me either. He said he "was looking for coworkers" - to introduce me to, but I sat alone for the most part. And he said he couldn't find a single one.. Its like he was ashamed or wanted to hide that he's married.
Somethings up.. He gets very defensive/angry when I bring it up. Am I just being paranoid, or could it be someone else? What would you do?
