Would you see it as a red flag if a girl you where dating posted vids kissing a girl whilst partying (she’s bi)?

[Anonymous]

[IceCreamSandwich]

I'm a firm believer that women are people. And if she's dating me, I don't want her to be romantic with other people. If it's kissing them like friends or family, that's fine, but that's not the kissing that usually goes on at parties.

[Asker]

Do you think he probably taken me less serious after it

[IceCreamSandwich]

I don't know, but I would guess yes. Even if he isn't upset about it, men who don't think wlw counts as cheating usually don't take bi people seriously in relationships. And men who do see it as cheating, well you broke his trust. That also damages how he sees you.

If you still can, you should talk about this so you both know where the other stands. I don't think you want to do something like this in the future without knowing the consequences it will have for your relationship.

[slatyb]

No, presumably I already knew that. Why are we dating? Are we looking for a long-term relationship?

[Asker]

Yeah long term relationship

[slatyb]

It's not a deal-breaker, but I would want to know what she permanent arrangement she imagines -- does she want to marry a man while still seeing women? An open marriage?

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, I probably would see that as a red flag

[Kaneki05]

I don't get jealous of women just men. So this wouldn't bother me and tbh probably find it hot.

[Berethor]

It's pretty slutty, but many guys find girl on girl hot.

[Noahzaid]

Yes!, Because I’m straight and I don’t support such Ideas.

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[boggboss]

Yeah the same way I assume she would take it bad if i had vids of me kissing someone at a party

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. Because she's dating ME, not that other girl. So that's a total lack of respect and a huge red flag.

This is probably why @MCheetah says not to date bisexual girls.

[genericname85]

yeah it would. sexuality doesn't matter in that to me.

[summiter]

Not at all... have fun!

[LimitedBenefits101]

Its normal women are born bi.