Why does my married neighbor stare at me so much?

[Anonymous]

I turn around and he’s always staring straight at me every single time I see him.

[hello123456789]

He might just be curious. Maybe he thinks you are hot? Are you attractive?

[Asker]

Yeah I’m really attractive. I’d just think a married guy would be more interested in his wife lol

[hello123456789]

A married man should be more interested in his wife. No doubt about that.
But men still have eyes! We still look at other women, but it shouldn't be creepy or disrespectful. If I was you Id just ignore him. If he's an older gentleman he's probably just gawking at you.

If it gets really weird, you should talk to his wife about his behavior... but that's a LAST resort.

[Asker]

He’s 33 and I’m 26. He’s not old. He’s so awkward around me though.

[AviatorTom]

He thinks you're attractive, and he likes to look at you. Could be totally innocent, or could be he's interested in cheating with you.

[tfan1]

He’s attracted to you. And he shouldn’t be since he’s married.

[Asker]

That’s what confuses me. And every time his wife sees me she never really greets me or talks to me.

[tfan1]

She suspects you are attracted with him too. You need to talk to her and tell her what he’s doing. If he keeps it up, call the cops or do a free consultation with a lawyer.

[Asker]

I mean it’s not illegal lol. I just started ignoring him. I think he gets the message. However every time we’re around each other it’s still awkward.

[BLP11520]

Men that are cut off stray with their eyes and minds

[Asker]

And penises?

[BLP11520]

I have been cut off for a long time and have not cheated, tempted? Yes, did it? No

[slatyb]

He's crushing on you.

[KrakenAttackin]

His wife probably won't have sex with him anymore.

[Asker]

Lmao I’m sure they do

[LavLavLuv]

Make this face next time : 👹

[Guardian45]

He likes your behind.

[Brando10222]

Creep

[Asker]

I wonder if he just finds me attractive. We talk a lot too.

[Brando10222]

If he has stared like that he has already checked you out and has thought about sex

[Asker]

I’ve caught him stared at me and watching me even when I’m out places walking around.

[Brando10222]

See he's a creep. If he gets a chance he'll definitely have sex. Stay away from him

[Asker]

I doubt he sees me that way. Me and his wife look completely different physically. I don’t think I’m his type.

[Brando10222]

He wouldn't stare at you like that if he wasn't. As a guy I can say that's what he's thinking

[Asker]

Me and him have a lot in common. And my friends say I’m prettier than her. But if he married her he has to love her.

[Brando10222]

I wish more people were like that

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Brando10222]

These days a lot of married people don't care and cheat

[Asker]

Yeah for sure. I feel really uncomfortable around him though and I don't know why - it’s either because I sense he likes me or it’s possible he’s like not a neurotypical.

[Brando10222]

I man wouldn't stare at another girl like that if he's married and is fully loyal to her. Sorry, but it's true

[Asker]

Well how exactly does he think he’d get away with it? Like I’m his next door neighbor lmao she’d definitely find out IF we did anything (not saying we would)

[Brando10222]

I know you wouldn't. But things can happen when she's not home or some place else. Remember one thing, cheaters will find a way to cheat if they get a chance

[Asker]

So you’re saying he’d definitely do it with me if he had a chance? Lol I don’t understand men sometimes

[Brando10222]

Yeah, he will. Or if you make a move when her wife is not around

[Asker]

I noticed that when I started straight up ignoring him and not even looking at him now he doesn’t try to be around me. Which makes me think that before he thought engaging with me would go somewhere.

[Brando10222]

Yeah, it's better to ignore those kind of people. You can dm me if you wanna chat more. It was nice talking to you

[scott04sa22]

Lucky you

[In_Trance]

because he can