Signs someone you’ve gone on a few dates with is ghosting you over Snapchat?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well you’re asking for a reason, so it gives me the impression he is doing things to make you feel like he’s ghosting. Of course you can’t know for sure until things are more blatant like he’s hardly talking or stopped responding altogether. In the mean time I hope you haven’t put all your eggs in his basket and still exploring your options, that way you won’t be so focused on his behavior and can let things play out without any stress behind it.

[Summeroflove]

They ignore me. Fuck it

[Brando10222]

That's a red flag. Leave him!

[Asker]

But how do I know if he’s ghosting me or just busy?

[Brando10222]

Depends on how long he's taking to reply. Ask him how his day was when he texts. He'll tell you if he was busy or not

[Asker]

Ok thank you that’s a good idea, we haven’t had a conversation in three days he just hasn’t been responding to my snaps as often as usual but I don't know if he’s just been busy having conversations with his friends, plus I know the last time we talked he wasn’t feeling great and I think kinda busy?

[Brando10222]

That makes sense if he's sick. Cause here's the thing, it takes 10 to 15 seconds to text and inform if they are sick. Did his snap score go up or is it the same?

[Asker]

It’s been going up. He just isn’t snapping me as much as he usually did, but he was sick for a bit (which he told me) and now he’s better I think but still not snapping as much, but he did send me a video today that I think was supposed to be sweet? I was kinda confused but if I was meant to be flattered or offended by it lol

[Brando10222]

If goes up like let's say 100 or 200 or even more than he's ghosting you

[Asker]

Oh ok

[Brando10222]

I'm sorry you have to go through it

[Asker]

It’s fine honestly used to it by this point guys always seem to ghost ig

[Brando10222]

I don't know why people do that. They can say no if they want to. At least it will be respectful

[Luckycharms12]

Did he or she get lucky?