How can you deal with being the last girl every guy notices or never notice in ur group of girlfriends?

[Reni002]

[RavVid]

Well we all like something different. I know my friends stare at girls I don't take a second look at. So I don't know it works quite as stated but I'll assume you know better.

So how can a girl get noticed by guys in her group of girls? Well there is the obvious of showing more flesh than the other girls. But I am more often attracted to laughing happy girls and if they are amusing so much the better. Some girls think the louder they are the more they are the life and soul of the party. Instead they annoying and make you think about gagging her.

Guys seldom get compliments from girls but if a girl does give you one it is fairly hard not to take notice of them. If the girl is a little bit touchy it helps too.

[PrettyPriya]

There could be lots of reason for that. Obviously, I do not know you as a person, so I will just be guessing why it could be. If you can provide some context to the situation where this happens, that would be helpful. You can use the update box and update the question if you wish. I will revise my opinion if you do.

Perhaps you are quiet and reserved compared to your friends. That does not necessarily mean you are a shy person. You just might be overshadowed by your friends. Perhaps they engage others better than you do.

Really, you need to just jump in the conversations and make yourself heard. There is no secret to it. You just need to interject yourself. My guess is that you are not being noticed as much because you are the last to speak up or step forward.

I could be completely wrong considering I don't know anything about you. If you want to give me some more info, you can update or reply to me here and I will add more advice.

[purplepoppy]

How do you know you're the last one they notice? You could be the first but there's something stopping them approaching you. I doubt it's looks, it rarely is. So could it be body language? Are you scaring them off (guys are timid creatures)

Here's a tip. Drive into the sticks and look at a town in the distance at night. Which light stands out? Most look the same, perhaps some are brighter, but it's the one that's blinking that draws the eye. Guys are attracted to MOVEMENT. A light skirt that moves catches the eye more than a heavy motionless one. Earrings that dangle draw the eye more than studs. A flick of the hair even tapping a pen. Watch girls guys flock to and they're rarely static. Stillness indicates you're hiding, movement means you want attention.

[SnowedIn]

"guys are timid creatures" -- truth right there. Listen to this person!

[skilled_jellyfish]

Here's the cold hard truth: you're probably not as pretty or you're not in shape.

As to how to deal with it.. get in shape, try to be more feminine, learn what makeup and clothes work best for you. Get advice if you have to.

[Mamaganja]

Can't relate tbh. But I know plenty of people think they're the unattractive one in a group but they have the best personality and it easily makes them the most attractive. Let your personality outshine your looks. The more sense of humor you have, the more attractive you are in my opinion. This goes for men and women.

[fembotnpc777]

You can go ahead and put in a bunch of effort and be "that girl" that men all notice when they walk into the room. They'll look at you, and then quickly move on to your slutty histrionic friend. That's how life actually works.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, just suffer I guess. My body is perfectly fine and I have a lower BMI that's just enough to not be flat, I've tried makeup and clothes, makeup always makes me look worse no matter how I do it even though I've been practicing and researching for years, and good clothes are hard to find, expensive, and most people don't dress up anyway so it's weird, so shut up.

[Guy13]

Your time will come as you are only 20. Focus on everything else productive now and the boys will come on their own later...

[boggboss]

Look for a partner whne your not with them when u try to look for people when in a hroup this is always bound to happen

[AdithyaR]

I'm the boy equivalent of that. I just pretty much have up on hoping. Stopped getting hurt and disappointed when i stopped having hopes and expectations.

[Alex8736]

if your the quiet one out of your group you will be the last getting noticed but can work to your advantage

[GreatnessBack]

Same as being the last guy that the last girl ever notices. lol

[spartan55]

Put out more than your girlfriends.

[Wise4myage]

Focus on making yourself more noticeable.

[Anonymous]

Just be yourself, not every guy is worth dating.