Why should you forget about girls?

Anonymous
I just dont understand. Yes, I agree its very important to love yourself. Back in my high school days I was obsessed about not having a girlfriend. For about 8 years I had to completely focus on myself, with work, hobbies, books etc. But how could you NOT forget about girls? Thats impossible. So its bad to like a girl now? I thought it was human nature to like the opposite sex, so why do you have to not think about girls and focus on your career/purpose? For some reason when people say "don't think about girls, focus on you, it'll happen when you're not thinking about it", and when people say "stop looking", it just makes think I have to close myself off from society or even avoid/suppress interest in girls. I can't stop thinking about that movie Joker, thats what it feels like to me. im probably overthinking this way too much but I admit I did meet a girl recently and im trying to get to know her. didn't ask her out yet but im planning to. I certainly don't think about her all the time but she is cute, no doubt about that. I already know her name but I'd like to get to know her more. What do you think?
Why should you forget about girls?
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