How to tell if a guy in your class is slowly falling for you?

[Anonymous]

- stalled around in class to leave the same time as me
- wants to/asks to takes pictures of me and w/me (w my consent)
- suggests we work together on projects
- asks to go on a trip for extra credit even though he doesn’t need it
- moves seats and chooses to sit next to me in lecture
i feel like he is just be friendly but I don't know

[summiter]

It sounds like he is. That is something I would have maybe done. How old is he? Do you want to get to know him better or maybe more? That is your decision. He may be nervous and not sure how to proceed... some guys are like that if they are new to dating, girlfriends and maybe he is a virgin and not had many girlfriends. I would talk with him or find something to do together. If you get good vibes get on his FB or IG with him. What are your thoughts?

[Asker]

He is two years younger, and yea he seems like an interesting person to get to know more of. That’s true, he does seem a bit shy. We do talk plenty in class and comes over to me to talk. We are just really starting to get “close” so activities outside of school might seem a bit much, but we do have class outings we are going to do together soon

[summiter]

I'd pursue him if you are attracted... see where it goes... he will love it! What do you think?

[Asker]

You’re right, I’ll do my best :) thank you so much for the advice!

[summiter]

I say go for it. It seems like you don't mind that he is younger which is good. Maybe you will end up with a new boyfriend or even some great sex?

[Sofimalite]

Just wait until he comes and tells it to you. So that you can see if he has the courage and self-confidence.

[Summeroflove]

If you’re into him. Then make a move on him.