How do I know if a guy is falling for me?

[Anonymous]

There's this one guy in my class that has been acting suspiciously for the past few weeks. whenever I turn around I catch him staring at me and he starts texting me more than before. well, the thing is that he had a crush on me last year but I ended up rejecting him cause I had no interest in him. he took it way too seriously and he just ended our friendship cause I said no to his feelings. but as I mentioned before, he's been acting a little bit different than usual and the only explanation I can think of right now is that he has feelings for me. what should I do and how can I know the reason behind his behavior?

[Izzy_3991]

He may like you again or never stopped.
If you don't return these feelings. Let him know and don't give him mixed signals or lead him on. But kind, of course, but not overly friendly when chatting with him. Keep the conversation light and nothing too personal.


All the best x

[Asker]

thanks for sharing your advice

[Izzy_3991]

No problem 😃

[Lalarousse]

Hi

first If you rejected his love , why would you care if it likes you or not? Usually people who don’t care about someone else’s love, don’t talk or think about them. So you need to think about this.

also … you didn’t explain in details his strange behavior so it’s hard to say if he likes you or not.

[summiter]

It sounds like he is still attracted to you and probably masturbates thinking of you... yes all younger guys do it often but most will never admit it. Do you want to get to know him better? Does he have a girlfriend?

[JPresidente]

Maybe since you rejected his relationship opportunity he might be trying to see if you're interested in a friends with benefits situation.

[Asker]

you went waaaaay too far with this one hahaha but you have a point though

[JPresidente]

Sometimes I stumble into the truth and sometimes I’m way off. 🤷‍♂️😂

[In_Trance]

ask him