about 2-3 years ago i ended a situationship with a Capricorn. we liked each other a lot, but he just had too much going with others so i ended things. he kept trying to talk to people close to me afterwards … do you think this was planned to get my attention or upset me?
he even followed my best friend on social media.. he also invited a few of our mutuals to his home and even brung me up to one of them one time and she came back to tell me.
every time that happened we briefly spoke and it always came back to him asking me to unblock him or whoever the mutual was , bringing up how i should unblock him.
it’s been years and i still miss him and check on him online. i’m ready to move out of the past but I don't know how… it’s been eating me up since it ended and i don’t see any solutions on how to move forward. i tried getting into a new relationship but it didn’t work.
i think this may be a way to move forward?(unblocking him in hopes of getting him to contact me) what’s the best way to end this mentally? by unblocking? i don’t want to be stuck anymore.
he even followed my best friend on social media.. he also invited a few of our mutuals to his home and even brung me up to one of them one time and she came back to tell me.
every time that happened we briefly spoke and it always came back to him asking me to unblock him or whoever the mutual was , bringing up how i should unblock him.
it’s been years and i still miss him and check on him online. i’m ready to move out of the past but I don't know how… it’s been eating me up since it ended and i don’t see any solutions on how to move forward. i tried getting into a new relationship but it didn’t work.
i think this may be a way to move forward?(unblocking him in hopes of getting him to contact me) what’s the best way to end this mentally? by unblocking? i don’t want to be stuck anymore.
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If you wanna get back with him that much, then you need to voice that to him, but on the flip side to that, if you know he's not good for you in the long term, then you really need to forget about him. From what you said it sounds like he was playing a lot of games for a period of timr to get your attention and that's pretty immature ngl. Who's to say it'll work out if it failed the first time yk what I mean?
but he has a family and stuff now.. and it’s been so long , would i look crazy?
If he's got a family then all the more reason to forget about it. Don't destroy what he has by getting involved
makes sense. also thank you. i appreciate u
No prob. It sucks to let go but you'll find the right one eventually 🙂
would friends be too weird also? since we did have a situationship? (last question sorry)
It would be. You don't wanna have contact at all honestly
got it. thanks a lot
Yeah no prob