Why would my trainer be behaving like this?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

So I have a crush on my trainer and his friend seems to like me

every time he sees me he says I’m looking nice and tries to strike up conversation with me via my trainer he reassured me this guy does it to everyone. Whilst I was doing a bent over exercise he was bending over behind me to check my form and the guy was making gestures and stuff my trainer shaken his head and faced the other way and stopped standing to close to me. Unattracted to me perhaps?

anytime this guy is staring at me my trainer shakes his head and looks at him with wide eyes and vague “don’t do it” expression. Today he said I looked nice they both gently chuckled (my trainer looked to the floor with a 😳 face” I said you too, and they both did a double take. I don’t get what’s going on here

[Smoothing]

Your trainer doesn't want you to encourage him. But he is not going to hold your hand. You are an adult. You should tell hom to stop.

When you replied they looked nice too, you were encouraging him. So your trainer was sho ked and he was surprised that you responded positively.

I wouldn't be surprised if next time he out him slef in a position where he could watch you bend over as much as he liked.

[Summeroflove]

Then ask him out. Like I told you a long time ago

[Emiliamazing]

Hiring a personal trainer is a financial and a mental choice. It's no different than getting a professional massage or using physical therapist. I completely agree with your thought about getting a new trainer, possibly one that is female. You are paying for results, not to be flirted with/treated indecently

[bowenw]

They are probably checking you out behind your back and making crude gestures.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Right? I feel like my trainer isn’t a bad as the friend in question but I seriously think it’s in my best interest to search for a female after I finish my final sessions. Or am I being dramatic?

[bowenw]

You aren’t being dramatic. Finding a female trainer is a good idea.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Yeah I told him a few days ago anyway hey I’m happy with all you’ve shown me but I feel like to feel comfortable and progress I’m better with a female and asked him if he could refer me to the female he said to finish my block first and see how I feel but I think now is the time as I only have one lesson left which he can refund me for

[bowenw]

That was a very diplomatic way of telling him. Hopefully he won't give you a hard time.

[pizzalovershouse]

Seems to just like his job to much an being able to checkout female bodies

[Anonymous]

When you were bent over do you think they were checking out your ass more or your boobs?