Do you ever occupy your thoughts with depressing things?

[Anonymous]

Like... now I'm halfway through being 33... Why am I alone? What if I never find someone I want who wants me back? :( What if I don't figure out how to achieve my goals? Or knowing that one day my grandparents won't be around anymore. :/

It makes me sad...

[Anonymous]

Not for long man. I was this way around your age. I think as guys we define ourselves by what we're able to produce a lot. And I can tell I compared myself to others for FAR too long. Never compare yourself to someone else. You are not them, your life is not a carbon copy of thiers, so why should the results be. And you're always a summary of your life experiences both good and bad. Always remember life's a journey not a destination. You can become somebody different each day. When I was your age I had about 15k to my name and saw no future for me. Just 15 years. Later I have about a half million to my name and am doing a career I love! And I didn't even realize that part of it till 45. Sometimes the greatest gains are born from the greatest tragedies. Keep fighting man! And don't forget to smile along the way because life really is what you make of it.

[Asker]

I’m doing fine with money right now, but I’ve got other goals like in politics and that sort of thing. So yeah. I don’t know what to do with any of that either. And I guess the personal life stuff is my biggest concern even beyond that.

[OddBeMe]

What if’s will kill you.


What your probable problem is being locked in a bubble. We all drive the same streets, same clubs, etc. How many women friends do you have?

[Asker]

I mean, there are a few women who would hang out with me if I asked just as friends at the very least, but nobody really close to me.

[Anonymous]

Relationships are an illusion that doesn't last, and most women are gonna use you, and work you to the bone if you try to stay with one forever.

Don't worry about your grandparents, we're all gonna die.