Do guys care if a girl they like has a fiance?

[Anonymous]

Hey guys,

I've got a question for ya. I'm a private music teacher and I have this student named Zachariah. At his first lesson, he met both my fiance and I. He's a nice guy - soft-spoken and well mannered. He's about 29 I'd say and I'm the same age.

Ever since he started taking lessons with me though, he's been overly friendly - more than any other student I have or have had in the past. When I was sick, he sent me memes to cheer me up. At our last lesson, he brought me champaign. He also goes out of his way to text me and keep in touch.

I have no idea what to make of this. He knows I have a fiance. Is he just being a good person or does he not care about my fiance and is just trying to flirt? The only reason why I care is because I don't want to put myself or my fiance in an awkward position.

Any help would be great. Thanks!

[CallmeTheKnight]

Use your common sense, you're not stupid so stop acting like it. This guy is trying to make a move on you and it's clear as day. I don't know why you can't speak up and put your foot down with this crap, but you not stopping this behavior gave him the impression that he has a chance. He bought you champagne... Sis, I don't know what kind of man this is, but I'm pretty sure your fiance wouldn't like this at all.

What if a woman was doing this with your fiance? Would you like it? You wouldn't

[misogynistic_pig]

I don't like women with boyfriends. There are only two men who are attracted to women with boyfriend, beta men and players. The player will only want to have sex with the woman, after that, they will not speak again. While the beta male really intends to have a serious relationship with the woman and he will spend money on things like champagne to get it, risking the woman's boyfriend finding out and looking for him to beat him up.

[Guy13]

I would have refused the champagne 🥂. Sounds like he doesn’t know one 🍸 🫒 has much more of an effect. Obviously, he thinks your repressed feelings for him will come out with “fun” alcohol

[Damian69]

Going after a woman who already has a SO and isn't in an open relationship/marriage is a jerk move

[Anonymous]

Simple answer. Seems as though he has a crush on you.

[Anonymous]

wow you really are blind. he likes you he has a crush on you

[Opinion Owner]

or you're just in denial about it

[Anonymous]

He is in love with you, hard to control that probably he doesn't know what he is doing

[Shamalien]

He wants you…set him straight

[Anonymous]

Not all guys.