If a guy stood you up would you message him saying that was not cool - I am so hurt?

[Anonymous]

[ShellyB]

I would not contact him at all, ever, and if he contacted me, I would be just barely civil to give him an opportunity to explain or apologize, if he did not explain or apologize, I would ghost him.

[peacesncream]

No I wouldn't but the next time he tries to get in contact trying to explain why I would ask him then because he should of not played with you like that or cancel it

[Kevinb18222]

Did he even call you? Text you? If not You should just look for someone else. If I like someone I’m gonna do everything I can to make sure I’m there for that date.

[Asker]

ty Kevin, I feel horrible, but at least I know that if a guy really is interested, he would do anything to make something work - I won't forget this lesson, thank you

[Anonymous]

i got stood up multiple times by her flew 3000 miles to see her just to get stood up. traveled 100+ miles last year and she stood me up

[Asker]

OMG I am so so sorry, my heart goes to you - tbh I give up, I give it all to God now

[Opinion Owner]

i did a long time ago now i wish i could just pull the trigger on my pew pew and unalive myself which i tried a couple of weeks ago but didn't pull the trigger when the barrel was in my mouth and last night i kept wanting to redo the stuff i did to my forearm and wrist like i did earlier this year when i saw she was with somebody else

[Opinion Owner]

last night that was after i saw she had blocked her messages on instagram

[kylee2437]

Nope. Cut your losses and move on. Let him chase you if he is actually interested

[Asker]

thank you - unfortunately, I told him I didn't appreciate it and that I hope in the future he would be more considerate of other peoples' time... I am just so mad and hurt right now - he could have just cancelled instead of left me there

[kylee2437]

Never show a man that you care more than he does.

[Asker]

thank you, I will take this advice and apply it - thanks ladies for listening to me, I don't know how I will ever get over this, I feel horrible

[OlderAndWiser]

What good results from telling him?

[Asker]

thank you, at least I know now - he just messaged me "what?"

so I am done, I feel horrible

[OlderAndWiser]

Experience is an efficient but cruel teacher.

[Asker]

thank you!

[jayhams]

Nah I'd just move on

[Asker]

thank you Jay :' (