How long to have sex in casual relationship?

Anonymous

Hi there, I’m only going to be living in the currently country I’m in for the next 6 months so naturally I’m looking more for a casual fling. I’ve been seeing this guy for a week, and I can tell he’s interested in getting physical because he’s asked to hangout 3 days in a row. For the fourth time, he’s invited me over to watch an anime we both like. I’ve done the casual hook ups in the past and I’ve realized it really does nothing for me, I’m too self conscious and I’m my own head to enjoy. I’ve only enjoyed sex with men who I actually got to know. That being said, I don’t really expect a guy to want to wait more than a few dates if it’s just a fling/friends with benefits. How do I communicate to him that although I understand it’s casual; I just don’t want to sleep with someone after only a couple of hangouts. I feel so lame but I’m done with shitty sex. (I know it could still be shitty but this seems to lessen the chance). I’m a pretty girl so I’m used to guys chasing me, but he’s a good looking guy too so it’s not like I’m his only option. Opinions please on how you would feel as the man in this situation (or from any girls who have been here before).

TIA

How long to have sex in casual relationship?
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