How do MALES generally perceive an ugly guy who avoids social interactions?

[Anonymous]

I'm very curious about the males POV on this...

Simply because I don't get along with a large portion of males

I don't chit chat, flirt, smile, or ever talk to anyone unless I have too [school, part time]

Don't ever talk too or interact even with the opposite sex either

Alotta dudes tend to take "issues" with that

But why? I don't bother them or get into their personal bubble

[CaptainOverthink]

I hear you.
I had some defining years myself when I was a loner and went through some drepressive shit for about a decade. And although I have mostly pulled myself together, have lots of friends (none live near me, but I visit and do events) and uphold my appearance to the world (as honestly as I can).. I always subconciously place myself in the outside of groups and find myself alone needlessly.

Chatty, gossiping people (mostly women but not exclusively) they will always have something to say.
The thing I've noticed about being mysterious (which is what we get for acting reclusive and not showcasing to the world who we are, people try to mash you into categories on vibe only).. but the thing is it don't matter what the truth is about you, people try to fill in the blanks with their imagination.
On my best behavior it's still 40/60 in favor if they see me as a creep or a mysterious guy.

If you're attractive and have good hygiene you can pass for an exciting mystery for girls to talk about, if not then ususlly you'll be labled the worst type of creep and any misstep in trying to improve risks putting you in the spotlight.
If none can or will attest to your personality then only the kindest and bravest can save you, except for yourself, that is. Which you do by being good to people without holding intentions while walking upstream consistantly. It's hard as hell once you get put in the wrong box. Changing environment always helps, a fresh start.

As for you question..
I'm probably not the best to ask but then I doubt the ones who come with shortsighted opinions wouldn't really explain themselves. So I'll speculate..

I'd group up 3 types of guys:
1 - Honest guys with good Reputation:
These types can sometimes seem like the popular cool guys and if you can strike up a good conversation or if you can prove you're funny, loyal, upbeat or just are none-judgey and has your head on straight then they won't care about your outwards appearance and will take you for who you are, simple as that. They choose quality over quantity but because of who they are they get quantity too.

2 - Bullies:
These guys take advantage and in order for them to feel taller they push overs down. They move in groups more often than not and consists of obvious hierarchies based on cruelty and loyalty. This type will have nothing good to say and will find any excuse to make you an enemy.

3 - Gossips:
These just shit-talk anyone and everyone, even their own friends when their backs are turned, real lowlives. They never act like a bullie would though as they'd rather not confront unless they have a mob behind them. Mostly they think it's harmless fun poking holes in others reputation and are just spewing trash and bile. Obviously they'd target you, but rest assured you're not the only one and the sheer amount of people they talk about shows they actually cares as little about you as any other of their victims.

4 - Passives:
These are the neutrals and regular people who rarely even see you and maybe just pass a word of you if somwone happens to bring it up but mainly they have their minds elsewhere.
They do sway with the wind though..
Given the wrong circumstances these could definitely form mobs if the right minority loudmouth ideology is behind say, a witchhunt.

[Messianic_Monk]

Personally, I'd think you need a friend. I'd think that for whatever reason you were made into an outcast (maybe unfairly) and I'd go to socialize with you. If you told me that you didn't appreciate my advances then I would accept that response and go about my business. In general, I feel uneasy for a guy who avoids social interaction. My mind always defaults to "the group is not accepting him, this is not acceptable." And if there is a reason for it? I typically try to look for a solution to the problem... no matter what it is.

[BlueScorpio]

That's not good nor healthy, this is why we're seeing a lot articles talking about the rise of loneliness in men and one if the many reasons is not having a close group of male companionship. It's very important for you as a man to talk to other men and have positive friendships.

A lot men sadly aren't seeing the importance of friendship with other men and that needs to change. If fatherhood is important for young boys development, then the friendship of another man is for other men.

[LazerBean]

Males like that are generally perceived to have an inferiority complex, or trying to be edgy to compensate for their lack of looks and social skills.

[Asker]

So then? I'm going to become a pariah to everybody? A target on my back?

[LazerBean]

I don't see why, generally the people I see just get ignored.

[Asker]

Not towards me

I been in many instances where many low status females would gossip about me & look at me with their pathetic
"Hawks Eyes" as I pass by almost as if looking doing or wanting to challenge me

In my old neighborhood it was almost on a daily & done by a lot of the older, out of shape, or slightly facially unattractive females

The younger ones wouldn't

[LazerBean]

That sounds more like a problem like you seriously act like a creep or you dress like an idiot. Or possibly you smell bad. I've never seen an antisocial person with no other problems be anything but ignored.

[Asker]

I don't talk to anybody nor dress in either too bright or too dark colors

I rarely give eye contact either unless it's given to me

You want to know who the real creeps were in my life?

Thrones who stepped into my personal space literally & just yapping to me constantly but there weren't considered creeps because they were attractive

I'm apparently the issue even when I ignore everyone else

[LazerBean]

Okay.

[Asker]

So being unattractive & minding my own business & actively avoiding defines me as a creep

[LazerBean]

It doesn't really matter what I say, you're going to believe what you want to anyway.

[WindAtMyBack]

On the surface I don't think anything of it. Everyone is different. Some people are more social than others. That's fine.

The real question is, why are you this way and are you OK with it? If it's not a problem to you, then it shouldn't be a problem with anyone else. If it IS a problem with you, then what others think is not what you should be concerned with.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Is it possibly a way you carry yourself because usually most men don't judge other men simply on look unlike women do to each other. Most men judge men based on character do you act needy and get rude to quickly I probably assume that it. Now if you are getting criticism based sorely on your appearance than I am deeply sorry if people are acting mean to you. But hey you can try to simply annoy them or if you really want to you can attempt to give yourself make over.

[captain_voidwalker]

There's a famous saying that moat men life quite solitary lives of desperation. But there's nothing you can do about it. Either your genetically blessed and loved by society or you are going to die alone.

[Ekvark]

This sounds like me so when I hear this all I think in my head is "yeah this sounds reasonable, people can be dicks"

[Anonymous]

I’m not really concerned with what others do. I don’t hate myself so much I have to look down on others to feel superior for once

[MountAverage]

Sounds very unhappy, bitter, frustrated and generally miserable. Needs help.

[msc545]

They probably think you are angry and unfriendly

[Anonymous]

By most women they're considered creeps and mostly ignored but some guys do understand their position but then ignores them anyway.

In short nobody cares about their existence, literally!

[In_Trance]

Most guys don't care either way

[Anonymous]

Irrelevant.