Why does this guy at the gym stare at me a lot and when I make eye contact he makes kind of an angry or confused look? Was he just checking me out?

[Anonymous]

[Sceprent]

See you never got an answer. There’s a few girls I admire and would be friends with, and a few I want to date. The friendly ones I’ve chatted with. The stuck up ones.. well my recent experience…


One girl kinda plain looking but typical showy gym thot girl, I tried interacting with her she always ignored. Sometimes I’m like wait are they looking? I check and nothing. I have a good sense of single people, though they constantly purposefully confuse.


I think she’s more interested in attention than human connection. She used to start coming near my machine that I’m on every day and she used to always be in a different area.


She always acts stuck up and ignores me even at her job a local restaurant. Last week I walk in I always look everywhere and as a masculine guy wanting female companionship I’m always catching glimpses of lovely ladies dressed for attention…


She’s on the stair master looking at me as I walk in… already frustrated I’m thinking “wow so you’re playing a game it took a year to get eye contact from you, you’re not pretending I don’t exist like I’m not a person. When all I want is to know you and give you a great happy life together” I show clear annoyance and continue walking on.

[ilikesnow]

Next time you catch him staring at you, smile at him and see how he reacts. *wink*

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t smile a lot. I’m painfully shy lol

[ilikesnow]

me too, but cmon, you can always try, right?

[whorable]

part of me says he was checking you out.. but angry looks? maybe better to steer clear

[Asker]

Hmm maybe not angry but just sort of a face he makes

[Asker]

It’s like an eyebrow squint look for like a second. Sorry I’m trying my best to describe in words lol

[whorable]

maybe he needs glasses lol.. or trying to play it off and it’s just coming off as awkward. if you want something to happen with this maybe set up near him and be like “ is this taken” then spark up a convo

[Asker]

He’s always like turning his head around to stare at me as I walk past. He’s making it obvious, but it’s weird cuz when I stare back he gets awkward.

[whorable]

does it make you uncomfortable?

[Asker]

Nope not at all! He seems like a nice guy, not some player. I don’t see him looking at other girls much. But I don't know if he’s single so I’m afraid to make a move.

[whorable]

make it casual so you have room to “ play”. more friendly approach then as time goes on flirt here and there but always go back to a friendly manner. like a switch back and forth. this gives you time too 1) find a potential love interest. 2) a potential gym buddy/ friend