What was this about?

[Anonymous]

I have trouble interpreting social cues because of my Asperger’s and reading body language. This guy who rejected me but then showed signs of interest and was normally really loud with me, got quiet and awkward. He wouldn’t make eye contact with me and he slouched. Another woman hit on him at social group movie night and he turned away from her, towards me. I noticed he was leaning close beside me, to eat my chips and in front of me, at the ticket box. Both times, he didn’t need to lean in. What was all that about?

[Summeroflove]

I would ignore him if he rejected you. It’s done

[Asker]

He rejected me, then he made Facebook photos of our married life, our kids; which we’d never had and kept showing up wherever I was. My mutual friend says he likes me but didn’t have the guts to be direct about it. He scared the hell out of me.

[Asker]

Yet none of this behaviour makes any sense to me.

[Summeroflove]

That’s weird. I think you might need a order of protection and a defamation lawsuit

[Summeroflove]

Me neither very odd behavior

[Asker]

Yeah, I’m avoiding him and staying off Facebook.

[Summeroflove]

Good. Sorry about this

[Asker]

Oh well. It’s pretty strange I guess. Thanks for your help 😊👍

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome. Yeah very weird

[Anonymous]

Its drama. Everyone is playing games

[Asker]

I’m not playing games. I’m genuinely puzzled as to why someone would carry on this way. All I did was show interest, then change my mind, then all of this.