Girls, guys getting into fights is a turn on or a turn off?

[Alchemizt]

Turn on

Turn off

[Anonymous]

My ex used to fight all thd tome and it was a real turn on to be honest.

One time during our many breakups I started seeing thos guy friend who was always intrested in me, like he was a real nice guy but kinda boring and very short but safe and very nice. So anyway my ex comes driving past the party and he's sees me with my guy friend and asks if I want to come for a ride with him and I say no but b4 he drives off my guy friend says something he thinks is funny (he always said funny stuff but was the kinda guy that never expected a psychical confrontation for the words he said). Anyway my ex jumps out of his truck walks up to my friend who is just standing there not expecting anything to happen when my ex decks him and knocks him to the ground and kicks him in the stomach real hard before he's pulled off him. I go beserk shouting and screaming and he gets back into his truck. So as I'm helping my date up he shouts at me ordering that I get my fat ass into his truck and to my shame I did. I was so mad at him but he stopped by a clearing in the woods and we had angry male up sex and I soaked his seats I was so turned on. He's in jail now, complete psychopath. My date's dad tried to get the cops involved and sue him but no witnesses came forward and my ex later give him a beating too which also turned me on. I guess dangerous guys are a turn on.

[Lynnfriend]

It's a turn off my boyfriend always says mean things, and tells me he is going to throw me and j have to leave now , I have to take all my stuff now because I can't come back and he is keeping my car. But if usually turns out violent because he starts physically pushing me. He is stronger than I am, he chokes me , and usually ends by punching me in the face. Last time he gave me 2 black eye's and my friends at work were not impressed. If there is ever another fight like that he better look out. I takes a while before I will even talk to him. But while pushing me out the door he's telling me I can't ever leave him. I have already concluded that he is not the type you can just walk away from it has to be planned and I would need help.

[Alchemizt]

Oh damn, that's awful. You gotta leave if he is that violent. I mean how can you go on with such abuse?

[Msputiton]

Depends if the fight was to protect someone from a very dangerous situation.

But just a fight because 2 guys are mad.

That's a turn off.

Hitting someone out of anger is a sign of lack of self control, which comes from lack of maturity.

There is a reason they younger you are the more fights you have. If you hit a certain age and still fighting you never grew up

[dustybiker]

Only shows he doesn’t have control over himself. Immaturity. If he can lose it with others he could lose it with you.

[sheenagwapa]

i don't like fights because it gets me nervous especially if it involves loved ones. i just want that we run. it's not beinh coward it's being safe.

[AsaKyo]

I don't like seeing anyone get into fights lmao

[She_smiled_back21]

If it's for "me" then yess but don't think innthat way 😂😂😂😂🤣💀💀I don't want guys should fight with their own friends coz true friends are better than girlfriend/boyfriend coz they don't leave u and make u heartbroken.😇

[Anemone978]

Neither but it's entertaining...

[Melodis17]

Huge turn off unless absolutely necessary.

[Akam93]

Turn off like grow up.

[mandyfire98]

Turn off. I'm into emotional maturity.

[MadKez]

ABSOLUTE TURN OFF