Do girls keep their "Guard" up with unattractive guys?

[Anonymous]

I notice most girls are very "Cold" towards me from physical interactions

Its a pattern that is very persistent

Just curious if this how they see us

[ManOnFire]

You mean you notice that they behave differently with you as opposed to how they behave with other men they think are more attractive. Or what they perceive as more manly and confident.

But also, some girls will behave coldly towards you because they really are attracted to you but have a notion that by acting a certain way towards you, it'll throw off the scent for other people who might be watching. They think by treating you like you don’t matter or don't exist, that it won't draw attention to the fact that they actually like you and are shy or self-conscious about it.

[Vikkrram]

I don't agree as i am an unattractive guy girls don't get cold around me , they bheave normally as they do yeah sometimes some girls didn't like me so obviously they didn't look at me much like i don't exsist.

[DizzyDesii]

Its not a guard. I just openly let them know im not interested

[Asker]

I'm talking about forced interactions where they act very serious but more like in the mentality of "let's get this over with" vibe where they feel annoyed by my presence but also want to get our interaction out of the ways fast as possible

I've noticed that when other guys regardless of attractive levels are treated slightly better to awhile lot with smiles & suggestions to whatever there selling or whats on sale

[DizzyDesii]

Ahhh i see. Yea that can be hurtful but it also saves you from wasting your time. If they appear to be disposing of you, you for sure dispose of them first and move on. Know your worth

[Asker]

But in general

If there very "serious" towards me but "bubbly" with everyone else?

Is that usually bad?

[DizzyDesii]

Yea they think they’re better than you. Screw them

[Asker]

"Nicer" to even other unattractive people? Because that happens