Guys, tell me if for you, is this a true statement? ?

[DubiousIntentions]

Fess up, you would do more than clean house, right?

[MrOracle]

I have never said will never do chores or buy gifts or any of that to get laid. I do chores because they need to get done, and if there is something I haven't done, it's because I decided that it would wait.

I don't know how or why some men let their women treat them like a child, but that's not how things work with me. I have had a dozen serious relationships in 35 years, and I never had a problem getting laid, and I certainly didn't have a woman expecting me to wash the dishes or vacuum before sex.

[DubiousIntentions]

Maybe you didn't have a weak-minded woman. You know, the type that latch on to bad boys and losers. Instead, it is them who get the raw end in the deal. I'm interested though, in your relationships was it 50/50 as far as household responsibilities go?

[MrOracle]

With the women I've lived with, there was always a division of labor, but aside from cooking, which I did once or twice a week, she would do the majority of the inside work, and I would do the majority of the outside work and the repair/upgrade stuff. When a faucet needed to be replaced, or a water heater, or when the gutters need to be cleaned, or the trees pruned, or the mailbox is flopping around, or the fence is falling down, or the cars need maintenance, those were my tasks. She did the majority of the laundry, vacuuming, dusting, and dishes (in most cases, loading the dishwasher - and I clean my pots and pans as I go when I cook). I always volunteered to swap an inside job for an outside job, but the women almost never wanted to do that. LOL.

Some women LOVE to ONLY count inside housework for division, but that's not how it works. I put ALL of the tasks on the list, and I let her pick tasks until it's reasonably balanced. I've had very few complaints doing it this way.

[DubiousIntentions]

Well said. 👍👍

[AimeeKyle]

Sure, I would do more as long as it’s an equal/ two way street.
You’ll want to be careful with this line of thinking though (if serious and not joking / fun natured). I have been in relationships where the female attempted to use sex as a control mechanism (to get what she wanted done, etc). It works for a while until the female decides not to live up to her end of the bargain (for whatever reason). Resentment will ensue and the downward spiral will begin…..

Keep it fun and enjoy….

[LazerBean]

The ones who aren't out for sex are going to clean their house as well, because everyone knows that no half decent girl is going to be into a slob.

[Daniela1982]

You would be surprised what some girls accept.

[Sixgunsound]

@Daniela1982 I've said it on here many times, men will rise to the standards women maintain, no higher. If women want better men, stop giving it to unemployed slobs who can't even provide for themselves.

[LazerBean]

Exactly @Sixgunsound

If a man is acting like that and not putting any effort into being an adequately clean adult, it's because he thinks the woman who's coming over is easy and has no standards.

[Daniela1982]

@Sixgunsound Oh, I agree 100% with you.

[DubiousIntentions]

Easy and being anal about a clean house is not the same.

[DubiousIntentions]

How does that say no standards and easy?

[Daniela1982]

Sounds highly plausible. The only problem is when they do a rush job in order to get to the prize faster. 😂🤣

[DubiousIntentions]

That is always a possibility.

[Snakeyes7]

Chances are he already mows the lawn, rakes the leaves, fixes structural issues with the house, deals with the car or electronics if they start shitting themselves, shovels the driveway and more all while having a full time job.

If you want him to agree to help you with your chores, you better be ready to help him with his. At least that is the deal he would make if he is smart.

[Anonymous]

No. I wouldn’t do it just to get laid. My house is clean. It’s always clean because of me cause that’s how my mom taught me. Easier to put things away at that moment than let it pile up only to have to clean it for a few hours later. The girl I’m w, I made sure she was clean. Not an extreme neat freak but at the same time I didn’t want a girl who was dirty, leaving clothes all over, bathroom a mess w all her girly stuff.

[SnowedIn]

The second part of your statement is true, yeah. But I'm already the one who cleans the house and the family knows it. So sex for that is about zero enticement.

[DubiousIntentions]

Sounds like you should get ice cream on your pie for that.

[SnowedIn]

Yes please! Or at least a glass of wine.

[Sixgunsound]

Faster sure, but better? I'll raise you a military unit that knows Friday night foreign port liberty call depends on how fast their work areas are cleaned and stowed.

[Sixgunsound]

Though in the interest of fairness that's usually about getting laid too...

[Noah-z]

I was raised to clean everything after I use it nor my father or mother is responsible to clean after me.

and I would take that to my marriage hood but she would have to do the dishes 👀

[DubiousIntentions]

So, you " clean everything after I use it" so there would be no need for her to do the dishes other than her doing her own?

[Noah-z]

But.. for love’s sake she should clean my part of the dishes too👀

[DubiousIntentions]

Do you think Noah did his own dishes on the Ark?

[Noah-z]

Yes! He’s a man of god.
And don’t compare me to a prophet because of course he’s better than me in everything.
I’m not a prophet, I sin and make mistakes

[DubiousIntentions]

So did the prophets.

[Noah-z]

We follow different religions.
Anyways, this my personality and this is who I am and some where there is a girl who would understand this.

[DubiousIntentions]

Yeah, I was talking about the Bible prophets. They were sinners like the rest of us.

[xJeremyx]

No. I clean fast either way. Cause I detest cleaning.

[DubiousIntentions]

Sounds like the typical bachelor. But fear not, Girls have some of the messiest rooms. If their mother doesn't teach them right, they will also be a messy wife. 😯😯😯

[xJeremyx]

There is a difference between dirty and messy. My place is in desperate need of a floor mopping. But I haven't done it yet for quite some time (thanks, school).

[xJeremyx]

But although I clean fast, I try not to half-ass it. I try to do a proper job (except moving tons of furniture around, I'm too lazy to do that

[BarryLiverstone]

I clean my house because I live there and want to maintain a healthy environment

[stratford]

Not at all. I would only want to get laid if the girl and I find each other super hot and attractive.

[Fryday_Knight]

If I am going to get laid for completing a task, I am going to lose interest pretty quickly.

[DubiousIntentions]

In the task or the sex? And here I thought men never lose interest in sex.

[Fryday_Knight]

I am after unconditional love. That... is conditional.

[DubiousIntentions]

And I'm pretty sure guys put conditions too, right? Like babe, give me oral but I won't reciprocate.

[Fryday_Knight]

I am not that guy.

[Sparkie460]

I don't do it to get laid. I do it because both parties in a marriage are supposed to help each other out. Marriage is not a one way street.

[ENGLISHlearnerBOY]

Yes çöz I ak so so so talent guy. Clean house, repair house and also my perfect cooking skils 😎

[dolemite89]

i wouldn’t put that much effort into it lol i’d make it presentable but not to the point of stressing myself about it

[DubiousIntentions]

Well maybe she would not put too much effort into sex then. Does that sound like an equal trade?

[dolemite89]

so she’s a dead fish because my place isn’t perfectly clean? that sounds like she has issues 😛😂

[DubiousIntentions]

Any job worth doing is a job worth doing right.

[loveslongnails]

Not true for me - I hire a cleaner, but I WILL cook and do laundry.

[KrakenAttackin]

This is using sex as a weapon, which is not acceptable.

[DubiousIntentions]

No one said he doesn't get sex. But after taking care of kids all day and cleaning up after said kids, and the house, it might not be exactly enthusiastic sex.

[bamesjond0069]

No thanks. I don't do house chores since I'm a man.

[DubiousIntentions]

You own the house, right. So therefore it is yours to also clean and keep up.

[bamesjond0069]

That's a basic misunderstanding. I looked down in my pants and there was a dick and so still I don't clean it. Women are always more than happy to clean a house. I don't know where all these "I don't cook I don't clean" women are. Every woman I know does all that stuff for me. And sure as hell if I have a girlfriend she does that for me or why even have her around?

[DubiousIntentions]

Did you do them as a kid?

[bamesjond0069]

A little bit just enough to know how to do them and that's it.

[AngryCarl2]

Don't girls do that too? I mean I guess they have a head start.

[Iron_Man]

What do you mean do more than clean a house?

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Not really, then again, I'm a virgin, so what do I know, right?

[Anonymous]

Only for someone who is older than me and I find her beautiful

[Sevenpointfive]

no. i'd never have an ultimatum to get laid

[DubiousIntentions]

I bet you would if you were horny enough. 😂

[LiamJHayden]

I'm a neat freak anyway.

[FilmGuy93]

Eh...

[NathanDavis]

OCD...

[exitseven]

sounds reasonable to me.

[BJP21]

There is some truth to that.

[Jmmmfi4]

Thats her job

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. Accurate.

[Luopio27]

This is true.