He said he is singls but cheated on this girl with me and she is ok with that, defending him. He humilliated her while talking with me. Why?

[Deimy]

[quaranta]

She is of course not "ok" with that, she is defending him because probably she is scared of him and of losing him, it happens to really many victims of psychologically abusive relationships, even (and especially) long term ones.
Plus he said he is single "but" cheated on his girlfriend? Someone is lying here, in this story, something is not coherent.
We can't know much about her from these 2 lines but if you are considering him as a potential partner, mind that you are trying to get a cheater for yourself, which is not wise and you end up trapping your own self under the belief that he will be different with you if you are "good enough" or other stuff. He won't, cheating is not about the partner, it's about the cheater. Observe very carefully how he is treating the other girl, because that is how he will treat you too when the circumstances will be similar. Would you want someone who humiliates you while talking with other girls, cheats on you, tells the others you are okay with that? I don't think so. That is a really pathetic business card he is showing you.

[Deimy]

Yes yes exactly I think she was abused... she calls me slut and prostitute while I sent her evidence to save her and spoke kindly, she also said he is gentelmen with her and that they are not dating but somehow they post couple photos together, she visits him. I found out it after he used me. He had sex with me 2 times , before he flirted with me for an month, after sex too. He said he really likes me wants to make me pregnant but now say he left me cause I was ugly and he did not say to not " lower my self-esteem"

[quaranta]

What the hell? He wants to make you pregnant to chain you under his dependence, yeah. And would he call the mother of his babies "ugly" and reject her? He is an irresponsible abuser and would definitely make a terrible father, keep distances from him and don't gift your babies someone like this. Unfortunately, soft girls like his one end up being the long term victims of those men. At some point they find them, and that's the end for those women... Once they defend their abusive partner you understand they are already all in and you can't do anything from outside, maybe you could if you were her mother or sister, but an unknown person can't...
I'd say, keep yourself away from anything related to this man, in general.

[NotTacocaT6969]

He’s a scumbag and will betray any woman who gives him the time of day.

[LiamJHayden]

Were they official, or just casually dating? Some people see no difference, but there is a huge difference.

[Deimy]

She say they are not a couple but she posting photos with them kissing, she visits him his family knows it

[boggboss]

Because she either has no self confidence or don't believe u thinking u want drama

[Deimy]

I shew her evidence but she defends him calls me slut say she hates me while I am kind to her

[boggboss]

What u did is not kind telling someone I cheated with you boyfriend is not a kind act that never ends well clearly she is the type of person that would have preferred u said nothing