My younger Personal trainer called me lovely?

[taylormb]

I am a 35 yr old woman with a 21 year old male personal trainer at a kick boxing gym.

We usually have bit of a chat and a laugh at the gym and often bump into each other outside of the gym and have mutual friends from the same gym.

We all text each other in regard to watching fights etc. Last week he text me to inform me he has a kick boxing fight coming up and whether we are all going to watch.

He then told me i need to have more confidence in myself and he thinks I am a really lovely lady! I wasn't sure how to respond. I am a bit of a nervous person at times when we are training.

I personally feel he was just being encouraging, polite and respectful as I am an older woman. However would value others opinions incase he was flirting etc!!

[kylee2437]

So personal trainers especially males are typically going to have a more flirty personality because that is exactly how they keep you coming back. I’ve dated two male personal trainers and I would have to get over the fact that being flirty is what they had to do to gain their female clientele

[Anonymous]

He’s 100% into you. Are you both single? If so flirt back

[taylormb]

so yes we are both single. I forgot to mention i stopped going to his gym a week before he sent that message. He knows i attend another gym with my friends from work.

[Opinion Owner]

I know there’s age difference but it not big deal anymore. My friend is 41 dating 21 year old guy! Would you be interested in going on a date with him?

[taylormb]

I am not attracted to him as his a little too you g for me. He is extremely mature and intelligent though and I think his a nice person. However just dont want to give him the wrong impression by texting him back 😕

[Opinion Owner]

Got cha!

[Iron_Man]

Most women on the site think that their personal trainers have a crush on them. That’s not the way it is they’re just being friendly so you’ll continue to pay them.

[taylormb]

Yes i thought so. Thank you for your response. It is appreciated

[Iron_Man]

You are welcome

[Summeroflove]

Yeah if this seems to be encouraging and professional. I would take it as that. If you were to be into him. You’re both adults so

[taylormb]

Thankyou for your message. I do not feel any attraction to him. Too young for me. I just do not want to give him the wrong impression by chatting away and being friendly as usual.

[Summeroflove]

I totally understand I would take it as a professional encounter. If you start getting creeped out or something that’s one thing.

But I would take this as professional

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome

[Nikki1989]

Yes, that would seem creepy to me.

[Guy13]

You must be lovely then.

[taylormb]

hahaha. I guess I could be called worse.

[Guy13]

Have you boxed his balls yet 😎