Guys, What does my sneaky link want?

[Anonymous]

My sneaky link is very hard to read. I have been very open with him and he knows that I am sleeping with other guys. The other night, however, he made some comments that really caught me off guard. In short, he was giving me advice on settling down and considering a serious, monogamous relationship (in the general sense - not with him, necessarily). In fact, I would say he was being a bit condescending about my promiscuity, when I’m sure he’s just as promiscuous as I am. We’re just FWBs. And he clearly is not falling for me… we haven’t hung out outside of the bedroom and we only hit each other up for booty calls. I asked him why he was saying what he was saying, and all he could say was that he “cared” for me and that I should be thinking about my priorities. Is he “breaking up” with me?

[spartan55]

Why would you care? friends with benefits right? No feelings blah blah blah... 😂 Yeah right.

[Asker]

Because I don’t want to lose the “benefits” that come with that friend lol

[spartan55]

I'm sure you can find some other moron to fuck you.

[Asker]

But he’s my roster leader for a reason 😏

[spartan55]

I'm sure he is 🙄. I still don't see why you even care. How do you figure you will lose him?

[Asker]

Because he’s turned off that I’m for the streets

[Iron_Man]

That is purely not safe good way to catch a disease only you would know what your friend wants. Just ask.

[Guy13]

Sounds like he may want your heart…

[Asker]

Makes no sense. He’s never really made any effort to go on a date or talk to me (other than when we’re hanging out before/after sex or the typical “what are you doing tonight” texts). I’m confused.

[In_Trance]

Are you really in your early 30s?