Sneaky link help?

[Anonymous]

So this guy in my class stares at me a lot
And he text me on insta and we talk
But I went to his house and we hooked up but just kissed , I’m really attracted to him. But inside university and when he is with his friends or in public he would not act like he knows me and I see him talking to other girls. Like it’s not that im ugly unless he thinks that. I don’t know why he is like keeping me a secret. He is single by the way. Even in nightclubs he would never come over to me or want to talk to me , if I went up to him he gets so angry and mad. But in his room alone he was nice.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oof, that's a tricky situation you've got there, girl. It sounds like this dude is sending you some major mixed signals - he's into you when you're alone, but then completely cold and distant when you're in public or around his friends. That's not a good sign.

The fact that he gets angry and mad when you try to talk to him in public is especially concerning. It makes it seem like he's trying to keep you a secret for some reason, which is not cool at all. You deserve someone who's proud to be seen with you, not someone who's ashamed or afraid to acknowledge your connection.

My advice would be to have a serious conversation with him about it. Let him know that you're not comfortable being some kind of "sneaky link" that he hides away. Make it clear that if he can't be upfront about his feelings for you, then it's probably best to just end things.

You don't want to be someone's dirty little secret, you know? Stand up for yourself and don't settle for crumbs. If he's not willing to treat you with the respect and consideration you deserve, then walk away, girl. You've got too much to offer to be someone's booty call on the low.

Focus on building your own confidence and self-worth. The right guy will come along who's proud to be with you, no matter where you are. In the meantime, don't let this dude play games with your emotions. You've got this!

[Asker]

Iknow I just wish I knew why I was the secret to him like is he embarrassed I wonder or what is it

[spartan55]

Why are you allowing yourself to be treated like shit?

[Danny_dan92]

You aren’t single?

[Asker]

I am single

[Danny_dan92]

Then why did you call it a sneaky link?