Why Would an ex be so distant and cold but likes to watch your Instagram stories from time to time do example last Saturday he did?

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I don’t get why my ex watches my stories on Instagram from time to time but is cold and distant if that’s the case I don’t know why he won’t just stop watching my stories on Instagram and plus he just recently hid his stories from me but still decided to watch my entire stories the same exact day

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Shateria, He is still curious about you. If it bothers you block him. Or you could just ask him. Did you ever have sex with him or fooled around? Maybe he is still a bit horny and masturbation is not enough for him? What are your thoughts?

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- ShateriaNorman1
  
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  I don’t think it has anything to do with sex or him being horny we’ve made out and all but we didn’t have sex I think he’s just still hurt in a since and he might be curious especially since he decided to hide his stories from me on ig but likes to feel obligated to watch mines from time to time and I’ve never had an issues with him watching mines but I feel like he should have just blocked me if that’s the case why hide or he could have been did it but he didn’t he waited for whatever reason but I still have access to his profile and posts just not his stories but I do feel like he is curious
  
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- summiter
  
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  He still is curious and he knows that you know he is still following ur stories on IG. I guess you have to make a decision whether to block him on IG, stop following him or talk to him IRL and ask him what's up? It is ok to talk with him about it... your thoughts?
  
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- ShateriaNorman1
  
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  I feel like I don’t want to block him I feel like honestly if he would stop acting weird then it would be no point of this even happening or getting spoke upon but I guess he does this to be curious or to get attention someway for example feeling the need or feel obligated to watch my stories he even admitted last month to lurking on my page and watching my stories and highlights
  
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Because he has a mixture of good and bad feelings about you.

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- ShateriaNorman1
  
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  Probably so I have no idea though cause he seems conflicted or maybe he still might be hurt or so I’m
  Not sure but his is distant and cold
  
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- es20490446e
  
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  I never try to figure people out. Instead I communicate clearly, and I expect the other person to do their part.
  
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No. that does not add up.

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- ShateriaNorman1
  
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  What do you mean it doesn’t add up? Are you talking about what he’s doing or based off on what I said because basically my ex boyfriend and I really don’t speak to each other unless it’s something important or maybe something that is a concern in a since other than that we don’t really talk to each other but way before when I have he would always be distance in a since which is why I stopped even bothering trying but he does tend to watch my ig stories on Instagram from time to time but decided to restrict me from watching his but he feels like he has a obligation to watch mines whenever he feels like it which is strange
  
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- Guy13
  
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  He is keeping tabs on you and trying to control your mind. This is beyond okay and you should block him totally.
  
  GUYS think you two are still F-ing. No one will touch you and he knows this. Block him. You are losing in this game.
  
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- ShateriaNorman1
  
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  I get the keeping tabs thing but I don’t think guys think me and him have anything going on we’ve been broken up every since may and I started to tell him to block me like he did a few months ago on ig because theirs no point of hiding your stories from me wants to watch mines whoever he feels like it if that’s the case if it’s such a big deal then block me I don't know what his problem is and it’s funny cause we just spoke last Saturday through Instagram and I guess after we spoke he decided to hide his stories but I seen his username in my views the whole day I posted on my story
  
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- Guy13
  
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  He knows you two are F-in, end of story. Let him keep looking and guys are thinking she’s an Easy F- Block him or get back together
  
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He can’t let go of you.

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- ShateriaNorman1
  
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  Lol 😂 I think it’s a possibility but then again I don’t know the way he be acting sometimes throws me off so I don’t know if it’s that or something else
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Sounds like it might be a case of not knowing what he wants.
  
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Anonymous
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because you hurt him

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- ShateriaNorman1
  
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  That’s understandable but we both was hurt especially me imagining dating someone who won’t commit to you due to them having bad commitment issues but I know he was hurt due to me accusing him of cheating on me but that’s due to his actions at the time he wasn’t doing what he was supposed to do for our relationship and blamed me for how it ended but I still don’t get why he watches my stories whenever he feels like it I don’t think him being hurt really has something to do with it I feel like it’s more to it or that it’s another explanation to it
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  because he still cares
  
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Block

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