Guy won't change picture?

[Anonymous]

He doesn't want to talk to me (I'm assuming) but we still have each others numbers and sometimes I text him.

I know he is seeing sometime again (even though he kept saying he isn't looking for a relationship) now so why doesn't he change his profile picture with her and I will know and delete him?

[SueShe]

What happens after you text him? Does he reply or does he leave you on hold? If he does not answer, then you simply delete his phone number. Problem solved.

He could keep you on the back burner, just in case the relationship with the other does not work. Then you would only be a substitute. That is not really what you want, do you?

By not changing his profile picture, he creates confusion and that is exactly what is happening to you. You are confused and don't know how to behave with him.

You should set a clear sign and simply remove him from your contacts. This kind of hide and seek game is not leading anywhere.

[Asker]

He never replies but when we meet in person he says I was going to text you

[SueShe]

Unfortunately, this is never going to happen. Those are just empty statements.

[Asker]

Yes he never replies rven after saying that. That's why I asked that if he doesn't want me to contact him or zpeak to him then he can put a pic of the girl he's with and I can move on in peace?

[SueShe]

You don't need to contact him for that. His reaction is enough. It speaks for itself. You are only giving yourself false hopes and you will never be able to move ahead.

You must realize that he probably lacks the courage to tell you the way it is and always finds excuses. Take the initiative and move on. You will only feel better on the long run. I know this is not a simple decision but you owe it to yourself. Good luck.

[Asker]

He has openly told him he doesn't like me so why can't he do this

[SueShe]

That is the behavior of a person with a weak character and that is not ready to accept any responsibility. Don't play his game and act as quickly as possible.

Cut all contact (text, mail, phone) and remove everything that reminds you of him.

[Asker]

He wanted a sexual relationship with me. However, i didn't put out as she was looking fir a relationship. He ghosted me via texts but kept talking in person.

However, nearly 1 year later, i told him she liked him romantically and he denied having feelings for me

After i texted him that i was leaving him, the moment he saw my text (he was sitting and talking to a few people), he came running back to the computer room where he used to sit and study.

Upon seeing the text and re-reading it, he put his head down on the desk and kept it like this for nearly an hour or more until he finally lifted himself to restart writing his university work paper.

However, I saw that he couldn't sit properly. He got up 2-3 times and walked around and at one point, he was trying to calm himself down.

Even after my text, he still smiled and said hello to her before we has another argument where he denied having feelings for me, never viewing this as a friendship and not wanting anything with me.

However, when i kept insisting that if that's the case then stop talking to me, he refused to stop talking. He also said my text made him angry.

As long as i was angry at him, he was behaving weirdly. He took extra 4 days to submit his paper, wouldn't sit and leave in the afternoon itself from uni. He also went to the park when we both sat and where she told him about my feelings.

He kept saying hello to me over and over again until i finally patched things up with him again. He had archived my number and chats on Whatsapp but after i fixed things up, he unarchived me

Now he's back to hooking up with other women. He still won't meet me, go out with me or see me.

He doesn't like me?

[SueShe]

No, he does not like you. Act upon it and stop talking or interacting with him.

[Asker]

Then why do so much drama?

[spartan55]

He hasn't even thought about it. On a guy's list of priorities profile picture is WAY down there. Clearly it isn't for you.

[Asker]

Oh pls. If he wants me to leave him alone he can easily do that to get rid of me

[spartan55]

Why would he even care enough to do that?

[spartan55]

I doubt that would get rid of you. You've proven over and over that you aren't going anywhere.

[Asker]

It would. He hasn't told me yet and I just want to know that he's moved on so that I can move on too

[spartan55]

He doesn't care. Hasn't that been apparent enough in his actions? He doesn't owe you closure or an explanation for anything.

[In_Trance]

smh delete him and get on with your day. This is dumb

[SnowedIn]

Why would he bother?

[Asker]

He avoids me and doesn't want to 5alk. So this is yhe best way since he's with girl and I will know he's moved on

[SnowedIn]

I understand that but that makes it about you. He doesn't care about his pfp. If I were a betting man, I bet he doesn't even remember what it is. Not something he notices.

[Asker]

He seems bothered by me. So why not do it

[SnowedIn]

Because, again, he's not even thinking about it. Lots of people don't even think about their pfp.

[Asker]

He never replies but when we meet in person he says I was going to text you

[spartan55]

@snowedin
And round and round we go. Dude this pink anon is batshit crazy. She's been on this bullshit story for 2+ years.

[SnowedIn]

@spartan55 ... yeah. smh