Slutty guy won't remove?

[Anonymous]

he's a 25 year old guy who is acting like a fuckboy.
He's tried to lure me into his thirst traps many times but all has failed and he never got sex from me. He's been seeing other girls as well and sleeping with them.
He also goes out a lot with his female friends, drinks a lot and is a chain smoker, who at times, literally smells of tobacco.

But he never deletes my number and makes new schemes to get me to text him, go out with him again. He slso started being hostile towards me after he saw me walking with a guy which i didn't tell him about it. He's failed each time yet won't let go. Why is he doing this?

[DavidRaul]

Clearly he's a fuckboy and you maybe attractive physically and thats what he wants , just "sex" . Just stay away from predators like this and also have a conversation with your boyfriend about this guy.

[Asker]

But he goes to bars a lot and there are hotter dressed girls there so why me?

[DavidRaul]

So why can't you be hot

[Asker]

But why did he get cold after seeing me with the guy? He wasn't even coming with me through the same door. Instead he took another door rather than come with me

[DavidRaul]

Who knows why he did that

[Fireguy17]

It all about the conquest, like a trophy.
Since he can't have you that only makes him try harder.
Just block him the best you can and ignore him.
Eventually he will go away.

[Asker]

What chase? He isn't getting anything and when I do ask him to meet up, he won't reply when he doesn't get what he wanted

[Asker]

why did he get cold after seeing me with the guy? He wasn't even coming with me through the same door. Instead he took another door rather than come with me

[Fireguy17]

He wants you on his terms?
So when you make the first move it isn't giving him the satisfaction he desires.
Something about his actions just don't seem like something a person would do.
Does something about his behavior seem odd to you?
Have you talked to your friends about this, and what did they say?

[Asker]

Yes I think it's about his terms because if I don't ask him out the day he wants me too, he stops talking , gets cold passive aggressive

[spartan55]

And there she is! He is 'doing this' because he isn't interested. Like I've said each and every time you post this little fairy tale.

[Asker]

Lol what a idiot

[Asker]

No kids, no wife alone and miserable at 50 sitting on gag 🤣

[spartan55]

Going back to that eh? Too dumb to come up with anything new?

[Asker]

Where s your wife and kids?

[spartan55]

Why, are you going to stalk them? That's one thing you're good at.

[Asker]

You don't have a wife or kids loser 🤣🤣🤣

[spartan55]

Like you would know crazy 🤪 girl... keep talking about shit you know nothing about. It makes you sound real smart...

[spartan55]

Wow, look at all the attention you are getting here... so pathetic.

[Asker]

Get a life old man. Go to your old age home

[spartan55]

You need to start putting a little bit more thought into your insults, because yours suck. Then again, maybe you just aren't very smart.

[Asker]

Go to your old age home you troll. 50 years old and answering questions on gag 🤣

[jshm2]

He's just being a "player". Best delete and block then move on. If he keeps up then file a harassment charge.

[Asker]

But why did he get cold after seeing me with the guy? He wasn't even coming with me through the same door. Instead he took another door rather than come with me

[spartan55]

@asker
You are so lazy... cut and pasting your answers... 😂 😂 😂 Fool...

[Anonymous]

Probably because you haven't made it clear that you aren't interested.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

Quote from one of your replies in another thread : when I do ask him to meet up, he won't reply when he doesn't get what he wanted

So YOU are making arrangements with this guy.

You are leading him on, probably extracting resources from him or otherwise keeping him around because you think he could be useful in some way to you and then you are complaining that he wants to have sex with you.

You are the problem here.

[Asker]

I'm not leasing him on. I ask him to actually meet up. He won't reply

[Opinion Owner]

Asking a guy to meet up when you know they are interested in you and you are not interested in them is what leading someone on means.

So yes, you are doing that and you are 100% the cause of this problem which you are complaining about.

[Asker]

I'm interested in him how are you getting I'm not.

[Opinion Owner]

Because you call him a thirsty stinking fuck boy.

[boggboss]

Because he enjoys the chase

[Asker]

What chase? He isn't getting anything and when I do ask him to meet up, he won't reply when he doesn't get what he wanted

[boggboss]

Yet u still entertain him and know what he wants so clearly there is a chase

[Asker]

But why did he get cold after seeing me with the guy? He wasn't even coming with me through the same door. Instead he took another door rather than come with me

[boggboss]

Because he dont want your attention on other guys

[Asker]

But why not when he doesn't care?

[boggboss]

Clearly he cares if he wants sex

[Asker]

But he already meets other girls?

[boggboss]

And uses them for sex ao what's your point

[Asker]

Yes so why me then? He's already talking and fucking them?

[boggboss]

Because he wants you and you said bo so the fun of getting u to say yes

[Asker]

But he himself starts acting cold, rude and won't reply then how will I say ye

[boggboss]

Because you didn't say yes to what he wants

[Asker]

Right then if he decides to act cold how will I ever say yes to him?

[boggboss]

If u messged him right now to have sex he wouldn't act cold because he would be getting what he wants

[Asker]

But if he knows im not like the other girls then why can't he have a relationship?

[boggboss]

Because thats not what he wants many people say they won't have sex before a relationship and end up giving in that u still show intrest when he has made it clear shows u could give in

[Asker]

But how will I know he wants a relationship if he won't hang out? If all he aims for is sex then he will only go around to have sex and then leave me?

[boggboss]

He dont want a relationship you want 1 not him

[Asker]

Yes so he knows that I'm not like the easy girls and he doesn't want a relationship so why still keep me? Hasn't he understood that I'm not like the other girls?
Is he attached?

[boggboss]

Lol u think your the only girl that has said I'm not like other girls yet managed to give into sex 🤣

[Asker]

I haven't had sex with him

[boggboss]

In his mind yet

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[boggboss]

Many women have said they won't have sex before a relationship and end up having sex that why players do what they do

[Asker]

Yes but he needs to do something. He gets mad then stops contacting so how will he get it?
Also why be mad if I walk with other guys but he can fool around with other girls?

[boggboss]

I answered that already

[Asker]

No I mean he doesn't care about me so why be mad if I meet other guys?

[boggboss]

Because he wants your attention on him

[Asker]

OK so he's not interested nor he cares but wants me to focus on him only? Why I'd he roaming around with other girls?

[boggboss]

We are going round in circles I'm not sure if you understand how players work but I think I'll end it here

[Asker]

Pls explain last time

[boggboss]

No u will end up asking the same question

[Asker]

No won't. Pls explain

[Asker]

Helloooo

[spartan55]

Lol...😂 😂 It's like talking to a brick wall.