Guy won't delete my number?

[Anonymous]

We only went on 1 proper date and 2nd date was just a meet up which essentially confirmed he only wanted a casual hookup situation.

I had an old number before (overseas) and when I sent him a text with that number, he did not save the number.

His last seen was set to contacts only so I could only see "online". until evening time I noticed I could see his last seen timestamp.

I had the new number on the other phone which I never used so I thought to install Whatsapp and check. Turns out, I could see it on the other number which confirmed he had opened his last seen from contacts to everyone.

I started using my new number cos the old one wouldn't work after a few days and sent him a text. He saved that number.

We stopped seeing each other and he got bitter but never deleted my number. Last month he tried again with me but I didn't ask him to meet up because he wasn't saying anything himself despite me being helpful and caring towards him.

He got mad again and stopped replying. Continued to make small talk in person but we dont see each other in person now and I'm sure he's hooking up somewhere else.

I checked after many days but he still won't delete.

he's already failed before andhes probably given up now so wats the point?

[Guy13]

This is why i do not give out my number or ask for one... who wants to worry about this crap in back of mind etc. Give only email and if they can't cope they do not understand your need for Safety... which means they are self-absorbed HOLES...

[boggboss]

Why wpuld he delete it

[Asker]

Because we dont talk and he's not interested anymore

[boggboss]

Until he decides to try again in a few weeks or months

[Asker]

But he doesn't care for me so why will he try?

[boggboss]

Why not whilst he has u as a option he will speak to other women has nothing to do with caring

[Asker]

Wait how am i an option? An option is someone giving him sex, booty calls etc. He can't text me for sex etc so?

[boggboss]

Thats not a option a option is someone who entertains him which u clearly do by speaking to him every time he came

[Asker]

Only small talk and sometimes he's the one saying something even when im leaving and not saying anything

[Asker]

Helloo dude

[boggboss]

Small talk is still somthing tho so why would he delete your number?

[Asker]

We haven't seen each other for over 1 month so no talk either so why still?

[boggboss]

Again rhat don't matter because he is not focused on you

[Asker]

Yes so even more obvious reason that not focused not caring so get rid if it?

[boggboss]

No because like I said you are a option to try again later on when other options dry up

[Asker]

Is he stupid? He knows me since the last 10 months abd he knows im not the oneto get into bed with him so easily. How can he think im the same as his other booty calls or hook ups?

[boggboss]

The same could be said about you are u stupid u know what he wants and yet you still talk to him if he talks to you?

[Asker]

I want a proper relationship thats why i chat but he doesn't so he should remove me and finish this?

[boggboss]

Or you should remove him as its clearly somthing u care about more them him if he is able to be indifferent whilst u want him to remove u

[Asker]

I have removed him unlike him

[boggboss]

So then why do u keep checking if he removed your number?

[Asker]

I checked after many days thinking he would have but its still there?

[boggboss]

I didn't ask when I asked why if u was gonna move on u would still look it shows you clearly want more from a guy that clearly don't want more

[Asker]

Likei said if he dont want more and he knows he won't get sex then why save my number?

[boggboss]

Because like I have said multiple times clearly it dont bother him enough to need to remove your number just because thats how u deal with things don't mean that's how he deals with things

[Asker]

If it doesn't bother him why is he so bitter looking and passive aggressive?

[boggboss]

Because when he seems you it reminds him that he didn't get what he wants but when your nit there it's not a issue

[Asker]

Not really because if he has so many issues he should remove me because he has been rude to me too.
You dont keep someone you hate so much?

[boggboss]

How do u know he hates u sorry because now it sounds like you are injecting your feelings to how he cares

[Asker]

Because he has made comments at me and is always looking so mad at me.

[Asker]

He was also pretty angry when he saw me with a guy 2 momlnths ago

[boggboss]

What comments has he made again making comments and looking at u negatively don't mean he hates you as you don't know how he feels u are injecting how u feel in his actions its not the same

[boggboss]

Also when was the last time u interacted with him because u have been posting this story for months?

[Asker]

He clearly dislikes me because he doesn't care.
Last interacted 1 month ago

[boggboss]

Hate and dislike are not the same and if that was a month ago clearly he dont dislike u that much if he didn't care to remove u

[Asker]

He can remove me but no matter how angry and mad he is, he doesn't?

[boggboss]

Clearly he wasn't angry or mad enough not sure why this is somthing u don't get

[Asker]

He literally said he was super mad

[boggboss]

And clearly super mad don't mean to him enough to delete u

[Asker]

Because? He has all the resources and animosity? He has a big ego and i saw him turning to look back at me and making faces too

[boggboss]

So what lol 😆

[Asker]

Shows how desperate he is for options and how braindead too

[boggboss]

As equally as how desperate you are to have a relationship with him

[Asker]

Relationship is healthy

[boggboss]

And your trying to have 1 from a player shows how stupid u are no?

[Asker]

Players can change?

[boggboss]

Lol sure thing 🤣🤣🤣 he clearly looks like he wants rto change

[Asker]

What type of girl can change?

[Asker]

And if he won't change thats why im asking he can wish me farewell and move on to his hoes

[boggboss]

You clearly don't know how players operate and I can see why u have been focused on him for nearly 6 moths I'm not sure I'd you are the girl he sleeps with or the one he talks to on the phone but this is fucking sad

[Asker]

How do players operate?
But he's insecure and he wants the girls to lust and chase aftdr him?

[boggboss]

I have had enough for today to have to explain how players work for u to question everything I say and for you ti inject your thinking on his actions its clear u want a relationship whilst he clearly don't and u are hanging o to string of hope that him not deleting u means he wants more again that is desperate

[Asker]

You said he won't delete to try again. I didn't say that?

[boggboss]

Yes but its obvious u want him to be in a relationship with u when he is a player that's what makes u desperate

[Asker]

U think players dont change?

[boggboss]

How he is acting clearly don't show he wants to change