If a one night stand ghosts me is it because I’m not good enough or there’s something wrong with my body?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

[Anonymous]

It’s a one night stand. Noting more. Men usually don’t take one night stands serious as far as a relationship because most men don’t respect women like that. Sure it’s fun for us, hypocritical as well but she’s just a piece of ass nothing more. As a man you think how many other men has she had one night stands w. This isn’t the type of girl you take home to your mom. Introducing her to your family. So how did you meet? Oh we hooked up one night lol no! Besides if a man is out for a one night stand he’s usually not looking for something serious.

[FilmGuy93]

No, it's because you were a one night stand... ONE night stand. You are there for a single night. That's the point.

[HelpMe06]

There is nothing wrong with you at all! A one night stand is usually a one and done kind of situation. Don't ever take it personally or allow it to create insecurities. It's always good to communicate wants and needs beforehand so no one gets hurt. Unfortunately some people don't have the decency to at least send a nice message or call afterwards and instead tend to ghost

[Emiliamazing]

This is a wonderful response.

[Aerissa_Jade]

It likely means he had another option he took, or perhaps he is married or otherwise not single and he couldn't sneak away like he planned.

Watch for upcoming apologizes and excuses later.

[Fuentes]

If I'm tryna nut I'm just tryna nut but she woulda knew beforehand

[WindAtMyBack]

A one night stand is a one night stand. Did you know what you were getting into? Did he mislead you in some way? Or did you assume something he never said?

I've never had a ONS and probably never will. So I don't know what's normal. It seems like he should say *something* the next day, and at least treat you respectfully. But I don't think you can expect too much.

[MysteriousDarkness]

A one night stand is done when you meet someone while out somewhere and left with them to have sex one time then go your separate ways. There are no plans to interact any further after that. Claiming you were ghosted means you tried to make contact to take things further with them when it was a one and done situation.

[Crafteroon]

Most likely because it was a one night stand.

Like asking why did they use the 'insert single-use item here' only once. Because it's meant to be used only once.

If you want more, stop behaving like one night stand.

[spartan55]

No, it's because you continue to mess with complete fuckheads.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

considering looking for a crash course on how to find a guy that’s worth a damn and how to keep him! It looks like im just one of those people that is learning things the hard way

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

i did try to ask him if we could go out or hang out sometime during the week or something but he was like, tonight I want to hang out tonight and go to my place. but I should’ve told him I don’t get down like that

[spartan55]

Yep, don't be so easy. Guys will never respect you.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

And maybe I should try go for men and not fuckheads like this guy

[spartan55]

That would be a good start.

[Anemone978]

Probably nothing wrong with your body, just he found no interest in you other wise... and has plans to have more ons...

[SnowedIn]

Neither. They're a jerk is one possibility or, the real possibility: it was a one night stand.

[jillybeanns]

There’s no such thing as being ghosted by a one night stand. You’re meant to have sex one time and never hear from them again, that’s the whole point.

[MrCommodore]

It could be anything, he might have just wanted a shag, don't take it personally.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Do guys really ghost girls they’re attracted to and had fun with?

[MrCommodore]

Yeah unfortunately some do, as they were maybe just look for one night sex.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It's a one night stand, nothing more. You're expectations for something so primitive as "wam, bam, thank you, ma'am", is rather misplaced. If you want more, don't seek something like that.

[Sixgunsound]

I doubt it has anything to do with you physically. I'm assuming it was just not adequately understood by both sides that it was a one and done.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

It simply means the guy is not invested in you. It was just sex.

[Anonymous]

It’s because you gave it up too soon. I’m sorry.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I tried to ask him so many times if we could hang out during the week but he was like no tonight, now I want to go to my place tonight

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry. Men are bastards sometimes. Are you okay?

[Opinion Owner]

You’re not a whore. I’m a woman too and I know how one thing can lead to another and before you know it, you’ve had sex too soon and start falling in love with someone you mightn’t even really like that much. It’s confusing and upsetting. Just remember you’re not a whore and wait 3 months of dating in future before putting out and eat some maccas and chocolate and watch a bad chick flick, like How to lose a Guy in 10 Days. That one always makes me laugh.

[motownplayer2000]

Probably. But who cares, that’s why it’s called a one night stand.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Really?

[AngryCarl2]

Which part of one night stand didn't you understand?

[Guardian45]

ONS means One Night Stand. Wham. Bam. Thank you, Ma'am! Sayonara! NEXT!!!

[iSensei]

Thats why we called it ‘ one night stand ‘ dont think to much i think ur body is perfect

[jjj101010]

Probably that he got what he wanted and that is all. Not u

[CoolCatMar1]

I don't think so

[Bklynbadboy12]

No it just means he only wanted to fuck you

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Then I guess I should be glad he shown me his intention

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes but I want you to message me

[Texaskid1]

Its called a one night stand for a reason.

[DarkLegacy]

Well a one night stand is a one night stand

[Fuentes]

It means he only wanted to busted a nut

[Alex8736]

it was a one night stand