What's the number 1 reason you would reject a girl?

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Unreal_spell · Accepted Answer

First thing, if a girl makes first move then I would have to say STOP! Because it makes the man more into her and end being in relationship if a man don't want this to be he would probably say No...
Same thing happened with me on a feild trip i was with the girl who was older than me but i didn't knew her that much.. so she sat next to me in the bus... after the trip was ended we were headed back to our home's and it was evening and we have to sit on the same places we sat on the day... the bus was dark and everyone slept as everyone was tider and I was the one also but then she took my hand in hers and i didn't knew she was grabbing my hand... then I suddenly woke up and left her hand... i was so angry at that moment that was about to tell my teacher but then they would blame me that I sat with her... so I didn't... and she proposed me and i was like wtf? I don't even know you and how could be a girl so stupid bout this... then I rejected her... later that day she told the whole school about this that i was with her... and that was the most humiliating thing someone ever did to me... but dont worry I took that in the easiest way I could...

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Honestly as time passes and I get more and more experience the reasons keep piling up.

#1 I would say is if she's not someone I could bring around my friends. Be it she's neglecting her hygiene or health or if she's really annoying and lacks decency and respect.

That's a good metric to use for measuring value as individually I might be willing to put up with certain things by rationalizing that she has other qualities and overall wanting intimacy might cloud the judgement.
But when it comes to showing her off I revert back to my high standards since she will be representing my taste and so I can be more critical

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Clingy, needy behavior. There is literally nothing less appealing in a woman than someone who has no thoughts of her own. This is doubly untrue when she has no thoughts of her own and is also super opinionated.

Exterminatore · Answer

Being physically unattractive.

If you can’t pass the looks test, I’m not interested in knowing more about the girl. I assume this is generally true of both sexes.

After that, bad morals. Not in regard to body count and not in regards to the past so much if the person has changed and the change is evidenced by current behavior. I mean ongoing immorality. That can take many forms. From theft, larceny, and fraud to lying, manipulation and general dishonesty, to political views which are shaped by morals. I don’t have enough space to list what I consider bad morals as this may be different for everyone. Simply put, if the Bible says it’s wrong, then so far as I’m concerned continually doing such without remorse or intent to stop is bad morals.

I’d sooner be with a very unattractive girl than one who condones or practices immorality in any form.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

If she was not affectionate towards me. I don't need a lot of public displays of affection, but I need to know she feels a tight bond between us and loves to be held. That feeling of safety in each other's arms has to be a two way street for me.

If she is cold or stand-offish then it just wouldn't work.

Lionman95 · Answer

If I think she plays me and isn't serious about wanting to be in a relationship. Because I talked to some girls before that demanded changes from me for a relationship but didn't want to change their lifestyle for example. For me that's a sign of not being serious.

xJeremyx · Answer

Too fixated on me. I don't mind spending a lot of time with my partner (if I had one), but I would need her to have a life too. It's nice if she likes to make me happy, but she should not make everything about me. It puts me in an uncomfortable position because I also want to prioritise her needs & desires.

It may also come across as being desperate.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm married, and if I weren't, I'm much too old to date someone who's still a girl, lol - 'girls' are under 18; as an adult, I would only be interested in someone close to my age, not decades younger :D

But seriously, I've rejected girls due to 1) her and I not connecting 2) one or both of us thought the other was annoying 3) the relationship we may have had was not quite in line with what I was looking for at the time

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

In person, I wouldn't if I found her attractive. I had one chance so far and because I was suspicious of long distance relationships, especially starting online, I declined. The one time I rejected a girl when I was of the mindset that she's just going to drop me at some point without warning.

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

If she felt the need to give her opinion on everything said by another individual whether they are a guy or girl. Even if the person talking is spewing nonsense. She can go on her way and have a laugh later.

AviatorTom · Answer

Ray Jessel gives the biggest reason...

mark000h · Answer

Promiscuity, lacking matching morals, meanness, being a feminist

es20490446e · Answer

The most common reason, by far, why I have rejected women has been:

Difficult personality. Unable to talk like adults. Makes a drama of everything. Abrasive. Entitled. Wants everything by giving too little in return.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

It's a tie between either I don't have enough respect for her to date or she doesn't seem like she's going to be fun in bed.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

If she is cold, not affectionate and her personality resembles bland or bad that I wouldn't want her to be around my friends or family.

Sunssong · Answer

@sashaha  Now: I would reject her if Uncourteous or too with the culture Me at 15: I would reject her if Not slim, ghetto

BCA6010 · Answer

Well aside from just being repulsive to look at, having an obnoxious or non-existent personality.

RavVid · Answer

Aside from fairly obvious ones, I think not having a collaborative cooperative nature but instead a dis-putative one.

Billlewis · Answer

If she's too nice to me, or tells me I'm awesome, etc. I only want to date mean women.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If she says the F***k word all the time, but sorry, I wasn't raised that way.

invalid1 · Answer

If she strips me from all the individuality and the character I have assembled over the years of my life.

lightbulb27 · Answer

my low self esteem shot down a bunch of em... and they likely personalized it.

Bricealan · Answer

If she smoked, or drank too much. Had an alcoholic girlfriend once, and it was tragic.

RockyHammock · Answer

Drugs of any type for recreational purposes. I've seen how it plays out and I don't want to be involved with it

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

When she is a woke self entitled deluded feminist and uses tiktok a lot

Sparkie460 · Answer

If she had no sense of humor, no personality, we had nothing in common. If she was covered in tattoos, that's a big turn off for me

Anonymous · Answer

She doesn't have a 6 figure salary or a decent job.

Anonymous · Answer

She shows no real effort. If she wants to date me she doesn't have to ask but she does have to demonstrate it. Too many women just say "hi". And think "well I did my part".

SpokenTruth · Answer

Feminism against the patriarchy aka God's order.

Paul09 · Answer

Hard to choose one. Smoked cigarettes? Wears tins of fake stuff on her face and body. Isn't active. My top 3

Anonymous · Answer

Being woke or a feminist. Been there, done that, never again. Life's too short.

Randalama · Answer

She minority age. That's the only automatic reason. Otherwise all bets are off.

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