Guys would you be embarrassed if a girl you weren't attracted to started dressing in mini skirts when she knew she'd be around you?

[Bethany22]

Would you be uncomfortable because you'd wonder if she was deliberately dressing that way to attract you, or would you probably not even notice what she was wearing? What length a mini skirt is considered more of a sophisticated sexy?

[SteveSmith1985]

I'll be honest. I don't think most guys would make any connection that you were wearing mini skirts for HIM specifically. At least I wouldn't ever think that.

Now, what's key here is the length of the skirt. I really can't give you a specific length, but length is going to be key.

The only way a guy might feel 'embarrassed' (or have any sort of negative reaction) is if we're talking about SHORT mini skirts. If you start dressing "slutty" (skirts or otherwise) then that guy's going to think less of you (or be embarrassed if you prefer).

But if you're talking about an appropriate "sophisticated" miniskirt. Then no guy is going to have any issues whatsoever with it. They will think you look good, and that you happened to choose to wear that skirt... because you thought it looked good. Unless he's stupid-full-of-himself he won't make any connection to you wearing it because of him.

So appropriate skirt= good idea

Slutty/inappropriate skirt= really bad idea

[RavVid]

If I wasn't attracted to her I wouldn't be paying much attention to how she dressed. If she showed some interest in me and suddenly started wearing micro skirts than maybe I would connect the dots and maybe feel awkward in rejecting her.

On the other side of the question, mini skirts and bikinis have been around for more than 60 years. That means your granma wore them. I don't think they are so sexy anymore though that depends on how good the girl's legs are.

My eye tends to go to girls wearing knee length full skirts or calf length or full length skirts/dresses. More sensuous than sexy is my pref. A long skirt with a slit can be pretty good.

[FilmGuy93]

No, but I would wonder why she was doing it.

[dynamicyandere]

I wouldn’t feel embarrassed. And, I probably wouldn’t be paying attention to what she wears around me versus around other people.



In fact, how would I even know unless I asked around what she wore when she’s not around me? I’d literally have to research.


So, I would probably assume that whatever she is wearing around me is what she wears around everyone.


And if I’m not attracted to them in the first place, changing their clothing isn’t going to change things.


But, if I somehow knew that they were specifically dressing up for me, that would may make things a little awkward.


I’d prefer that they stop, for their own sake, because it makes them seem desperate, especially if they are deliberately trying to show more skin to get my attention.

[snackthatsmilesback]

If I knew she was trying to attract me I could get embarrassed, sure, tho prolly not much b4 just annoyed. But then I'm not single or available so I'd take it as an insult anyone trying to get me to cheat, no matter if I'm attracted. I'm sure it'd be different otherwise.

[BeMuse]

I usually just play dumb when they do stuff like that and ignore them. If they are over the top with it like wearing a completely sheer dress where I can see their entire body and they're wearing lacy lingerie and thong underwear and they outright say something like do you like my new dress, then I'll usually laugh and shake my head and maybe roll my eyes and say you're ridiculous.

[LickwidSkie]

I wouldn't be uncomfortable. As far as if I'd notice, I'm not really sure. If I had not known her very long, I might just see it as the way she dresses.

In public, I'd prefer a woman I'm in a relationship not wear anything shorter than a few inches their knees.

[Westb87]

Wouldn’t bother me in the least. I’d be mildly flattered if I knew she was trying to get my attention, but it wouldn’t affect me in the grand scheme of things. Any skirt that’s mid-thigh would be considered sophisticated and sexy. It bridges the gap between “too short and too easy/trying too hard” and “too long to categorize as sexy”.

[terry49]

I would probably notice her since I like mini skirts but would not think too much about it. I would say 5 or 6 inches above the knee is a nice look.

[Danisgivingit]

Not uncomfortable, but may make me question her motives. I like a little mystery - keeps me intrigued. Also, no need to show off anything that I’m already interested in. Maybe every once in a while to spark some interest, but if I’m attracted, clothing doesn’t really change that - just my hormone level.

[SunnyRS]

Honestly speaking if I was not attracted to her I would not notice if she starts wearing mini skirt near me and I won't be able to pick out that she dresses differently with other people and differently with me.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would likely notice her wearing the skirt and I may even say it looks nice. I wouldn't feel uncomfortable, as she could be wearing the skirt for anyone.

Just above the knees, is both sexy and sophisticated.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I am not attracted to her. I don't care for what she does. Simple.

If we are meeting for work. Then work is the only thing I would do with her. Nothing else.

Better be ignorant, be an idiot, a workaholic than be labelled a creep.

[FunkyMonkee]

No. Why would I be embarrassed? SHE'S wearing the skirt!

[Paul_in_Indy]

It would probably work to make me notice. I would not be embarrassed if I thought you were trying to attract me. I would respond positively to that.

[Heterosketero]

Has happened before. No, I was not embarassed. If you are honest, people will understand that you are not attracted not to hurt their feelings, but simply as a matter of course. Be flattered, not everyone would take that risk.

[Anonymous]

I find mini skirts sexy on any girl. Sue me.
If I wasn't attracted to her before, I would be then

[Stevefiveo]

I wouldn't be embarrassed. I'd be flattered.

[Fireguy17]

no, not at all.
I might notice, but it would probably not change how I feel about her.
It is the same person in a mini skirt.
I doesn't change a thing.

[Dachshund_guy]

To be honest, most guys don't notice what people they are attracted too are wearing. I don't think many men would even notice. We are pretty clueless.

[melanieeeB]

If he is measuring my worth by my clothing, he can go.

[stratford]

Not really. Girls wear mini skirts all the time so it would be no big deal.

Now, if she were going commando and started giving me a peak, that would be a different matter :-)

[virgincountryboy]

I would not know what to think about that because I am new and I am very shy and very nervous and I really Don't know what to say or look at her Wear it

[Still-alive]

i don't think i'd be aware enough to think she's doing that to get my attention to begin with so...

he might look at you more but otherwise.. ehhh lol

[AviatorTom]

No, I'd figure she was giving me some ammunition for later "personal" activities

[xJeremyx]

I would feel uncomfortable, not so much embarrassed.

[RoastedToast]

If I wasn't attracted to her, I probably wouldn't notice because I'm not paying it any attention to mind.

[Anonymous]

Not embarrassed, no. But I might feel bad thinking her attempts are in vain.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I wouldn't mind if I was dating a girl who wears mini skirts.

[Mansearching]

Not at all. She's the one embarrassing herself.

[LiamJHayden]

No. That is such common attire around here I might not even notice.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Why would I be embarrassed about something someone else is doing?

[peedy]

No not at all id start looking if she is flashing me and not wears any panties

[SpaceGalaxy]

Only if she bends over in front of me and i can see her undies

[SnowedIn]

Would not be embarrassed.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I'd appreciate the nice view

[Wade12345]

I don't mind a girl wearing mini skirts.

[Angelo75]

I'd be flattered.

[loveslongnails]

Does she look good in them?

[pizzalovershouse]

Nope not at all

[smahala1991]

She can wear whatever it doesn't bother me

[ChefPapiChulo]

I wouldn’t think that way at all.

[Anonymous]

Probably wouldn't even notice.

[LemiaOfThunder]

I guess so

[EaterPeter]

I don't think so.

[shortster]

Nope

[JesseJayNeak]

I’d be surprised