Guys, what are reasons you never asked a girl on a second date?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

Dating online: conversation doesn't flow, incompatible values or world view, physically not attractive to me, habits I find unacceptable.

[Asker]

I feel like I don’t do anything wrong but I’m having trouble dating. I don’t have any bad habits or anything that could put someone off.

[slatyb]

It's rarely a question of "doing something wrong". It's a matter of mutual compatibility. I rarely rejected a woman for doing something wrong, except the woman who posted a picture that must have been ten years out of date.

Be specific -- what happened on your last date? What did you do? What did you talk about? How was the conversation? Did if flow, or were you struggling to find a common interest?

[Asker]

I’m not sure. I just show up to the date looking my best, I wear makeup and a dress and heels, hair done, the guy compliments me on how I look and everything. I’ll ask questions about what they do and their interests and share things about myself. They sometimes just never even mention not seeing me again. I am a classy girl I don’t do anything out of line. They drive me home after and I might mention I’m happy to see them again and a thank you note, then still nothing. Some of the guys are awkward and quiet though.

[UncleBilll]

Because she didn't want to give a BJ or get into her panties on the 1st

[Wise4myage]

She must have said something that turned me off.