How to understsnd Girls in their 20's that look 14 or less?

[Luopio27]

I know a cute, smart and fun white girl at my last job, 20 years old now. I am 38 year old black man. At work we were on the same level, neithe one was a boss or a client. She got more friendlier with me than girls her age.

Age gap relationships are one thing society doesn't look lightly on, even when both are looking like adults living on their own, paying theor own bills with work.

Even as s friend I am too uncomfortable and scared too to even go out on a hotel bufet breakfast alone without everyone thinking I would be a pedo grooming a girl that looks 14 or a less.

I care about her but just dont find hanging out with her safe. Most by standards would propably attack me, thinking of me as a predator and her as a groomed child victim, needed to be saved.

Im out of words and thoughts.

[Anonymous]

My wife is 4ft6 and I'm 6ft6 and there's a 15 year age gap. She's 25 but sometimes look 15. A few years ago we went away for a dirty weekend to a hotel, she was 20 at the time. The hotel manager called the cops as he believed it was a case of statutory rape of a 12 year old minor. She was wearing her old Catholic school uniform which didn't help. The hotel let the police in to find me balls deep doing her. She had no Id and it was another state so I ended up being dragged out half naked into a police car very roughly and spent the night in a cell and she had to spend the night with social services until her parents came up with her identification to get her that night. Still didn't let me out until the morning. I make her carry ID now wherever we go.

[Luopio27]

That is so messed up. Short girls will face problems like these especially id they date older guys. Even some 18 year old big buff guys can get arrested or beaten uo for holding hands with an older petite girl that looks half her age.

That is so messed up, treated like predators without any background checks.

[Luopio27]

Did the cops apologise to you in the morning or cover any costs over the embarasment?

[Opinion Owner]

Hotel apologised and waved the bill and gave us a weekend free with meals and spa access. Didn't want us to sue.

[Luopio27]

Thats better than nothing. I understand if neither of you wish to ever go back. What did she and her parents, how did they respond to the authoroties and those wjo sheltered you girlfriend?

This is one of those no winners anywhere kind of things.

[Guy13]

That sounds interesting. It must difficult to get dates.

[Luopio27]

Its bad for both.

[UncleBilll]

I would not care, I've dated girls who are friends with my daughter's and get the same predator type reaction, but enjoy life